Do I have good reason to be scared of females?

[IlikeClubMusic]

i can never talk to girls in real life, sometimes in my life girls have showed intrest in me for example rubbing my thigh in taxi, or smiling at me and trying to talk to me, but every time it jus scares me and i freeze and dont act... at all... i act unintrested and nothing ever happens... i fear that if i speak or try anything there's a high chance of negative judgement, like turning her off very easily, or being called a creep or just being rejected... i see girls treat guys like this a lot online or in internet videos so i think this is where my fear comes from, which is why i avoid them in real life, is my assumptions correct?

[random_girl95]

From what you mentioned I feel you have a lot of insecurities. It's understandable that not all guys can be chill with girls so finding your own way of communicating with women is preferred. What's more, videos shouldn't be your guide in learning how to treat girls, as there are often unrealistic.

[whirled_up_girl]

You could always do what my first boyfriend did after we met and chatted for a while, he gave me his number on a piece of paper and told me to call him if I wanted to go out sometime. This was before texting was so popular of course.

[slatyb]

No, it's not. Why do you have such a low opinion of yourself? Counseling could help. It helped me.

[NathanDavis]

your assumptions are stupid

[IlikeClubMusic]

but if i do talk to a girl, and she calls me creep... which is probably very likely... isn't my assumption right?

[NathanDavis]

that depends on the circumstances...

but, since it has not actually happened for real

you are assuming, yes... which is dumb

[SolitarySolace]

Just tell them to get the F off you.