I am afraid of women. What should I do?

[Anonymous]

Hello friends. I wanted to consult you about something. Since I was little, I had a very bad time with women because of my physical flaws. I have strabismus in my eye and scoliosis in my body. I started to fear women because of the events I experienced. I'm afraid the same thing will happen again. I've never had a girlfriend before. I've never even held a girl's hand. How can I overcome this? Will I ever have a girlfriend?

[Secret6620]

The best cure for fear is to do the thing which you fear most.

So I would suggest getting out of your comfort zone daily and trying to practice approaching women and asking them out.

Baby steps initially of course and don't fear rejection.

[Secret6620]

Yay! Superb opinion

[Anonymous]

Don't be afraid my man. Most women aren't relationship material. That's just the truth. Yeah around your age women are still fairly shallow. But my best advice to you is don't focus so much on "success". Just focus on engaging them. It's VERY UNLIKELY you'll meet the woman of your dreams the first time out, or the second, or the 3rd anyhow. Don't focus on your limitations focus on what you excel at.

[Iron_Man]

Show me a picture of your eyeball and I’ll tell you if it’s a problem or not

[MCheetah]

I have no idea what to tell you other than your fears are probably justified.

[IsoUser]

I guess my first question would be why are you afraid?

[PerfectDark_Joe]

If you are afraid of women, why would you want a girlfriend?

[slatyb]

Can you see a therapist? One helped me quite aot.

[Avicenna]

Just talk to them. They won’t bite you.

[SolitarySolace]

False. A woman told me she wouldn't bite. She did. In the form of an ex parte ppo and false accusations.

[In_Trance]

Stay away from women