Why do some women like to lie about men 🤔?

[JoyGirl]

What exactly do you gain from accusing a man of false rape? What exactly do you gain from lying to a man and saying a child is his, when the child isn’t his? Why ruin the life of a man just to make yourself feel superior? 🤔

Why are some women like that? Why lie about men?

[Anonymous]

Women are worse than men when it comes to relational aggression. So spreading rumors about someone you don’t like, using backhanded compliments, back stabbing, making up false stories etc. Things like that.

Generally speaking with guys we just beat the shit out of you and that’s that. We punch you in the face a few times and we feel better. We’ve got our need for revenge out of our system, and we feel satisfied that you’re now a bloody mess and have a black eye and broken nose etc.

Most women can’t just go do things like that physically. In general, women are smaller and weaker than men. So how can they work out their aggression and get revenge?

By fucking with your LIFE.

Some of the things I see women ask on here about whether they should do this, or tell so and so that, or let someone know that thus and thus is going on. Why? It’s always the most vindictive shitty stuff too. You found out your friend’s boyfriend looked at some girl’s tits and you’ve just GOT to let her know what a pig he is. Why? On God’s green Earth, why? It’s like some of you live just to hurt people and ruin relationships. 🤷‍♂️

[ChiTown33]

It all comes down to RESPECT. Some women, some guys have no respect for ANYONE. These types of people think others exist only for their benefit.
If you can't understand why they do some of the things they do, congratulations! It just means your mind isn't twisted like theirs.

[fonduegirl]

It does ruin their life. It is terrible of the women.

But in India, that's a necessary evil. Nope, no excuses, I'm agreeing it's horrible. But it's single mothers are degraded on every step like every person feels it's their private right to abuse her because she doesn't know the father. Secondly, the woman posing as my godmother pulled this crap. With money and lawyer, she falsely accused a higher up of harassing the staff. She did so because as a boss, he used to bully her. If not in a sexual way, in a verbal manner. Many people would just wave it off saying that bosses are awful and will excuse the behaviour.

[Anonymous]

When I was in high school my older sister had a friend whose father was falsely accused of raping a mutual friend. The accuser was pissed at her for "stealing" her boyfriend (she didn't... the guy liked her but she didn't like him back but it still made her angry I guess) and to get back at her she accused her father of rape. It went pretty far before she finally reversed her story and even then it was because the detective caught her in a lie and she confessed. Some people are just evil.

[lightbulb27]

Excellent example to study. Asker is asking a psychology question as to motive. This girls motive and underlying emotional energy appears to be jealousy… vindictive. She only cared about her feelings being resolved which means hurting others. Very twisted but that’s what negative emotions do. In the end … it’s sadness and something else… like wanting to be loved. Who knows why she felt unloved…have to dig. It’s fun to play psychology sleuth. Point being… evil is just a general term that covers a domain of negative emotions.

[Agagagagaga]

Did this person face any consequences for lying?

[NamerOfStars]

They stand to gain status, because being seen as a victim is a positive thing these days. They stasd to gain revenge, because laws and their enforcers are so lopsided is favor of women. They stand to gain money, but in retributive legal fees and government relief funds, to say nothing of book deals and TV appearances.

It's easy to prove sex; it's hard to prove rape. And modern society is WAY too emotional to remember that it's better ho let ten guilty men go free than to imprison an innocent one.

[Kumarima]

Wonderful logic... "let ten guilty men go free than to imprison an innocent one".

Leave them out here making more victims, is that it?

[NamerOfStars]

@Kumarima When the alternative is YOU making more victims, then yes. Do you not understand the importance of net being evil?

[Anonymous]

To make herself feel superior, as you said. Or to gain sympathy. Or out of sadism, spite, or revenge, however justified or unjustified. I think women in these scenarios either truly don't get enough attention, and so are desperate for attention and sympathy, or they just feel as though they don't get enough attention. Maybe they're Borderline and afraid of abandonment. I don't think any of the women who tell these sort of lies are completely stable and mentally okay. It doesn't excuse their actions, but people rarely do this shit just for shits and giggles, and hell, they may very well be Antisocial or narcissistic if 'for fun' really is the only motivator.

[LinkxPeach]

Women falsely accuse men of rape because they want their money. Women lie about who’s the father of their kid, so that they don’t be see as a whore, or slut. Basically, because people say that, “women don’t lie.” Women lie anyway, and people still believe it. If a woman did get raped by a man, how come she isn’t crying, look scared, or is hurt by the suspect? If a woman actually did had a kid with someone, then how come she didn’t used a condom/magnum, or take birth control? Why let men who are deadbeats, have unwanted kids with her, and are not interested in having kids with her not be told that’s their kids?

[deardiary234]

Some of us are mentally hurt by past relationships/experiences so we scare ourselves into thinking that every guy is bad, but that's not true. Some guys make bad choices; that graphically effect others like rape, and others. Some girls do it out of precaution. But in reality, the men that do that (rape) have little to no respect for women, and it causes us to be wary of what men may do. They are a lot stronger than us females and could hurt if they wanted to. Which is why we should be cautious of who we are around. Guys can be amazing people to hang out. We should give the right guys a chance. Men can have respect for us. Not every guy is the same; just like every female is the same. Give some a chance.

[Adronicus]

Men's strength is aggression which is largely illegal but female manipulation? One used to balance the other but since it does no longer there's consequences. Family courts a powerful adversary for any man & women know they can use that to their advantage with little to no worries of a man responding aggressively. Don't hate me, hate God.

[ShadezMcgee]

Damn, @joygirl, never imagined seeing you ask this question.

[JoyGirl]

Why? 😂

[ShadezMcgee]

Never recalled seeing you ask or respond to questions that highlighted women or called out women that did this. Then again I possibly missed your posts. Either way, my bad. Just surprised me.

[JoyGirl]

😂😂😂
All good. 💜

[rainn_stalker]

Ruining reputation is the way women are agressive, since we almost never for go for physical fights... now, it takes a horrible woman to make a false rape accusation just like it takes a horrible man to hit a woman.. if you know a girl like that, get far away from her

[mark_wazowski]

this question sounds like straight come out FROM a MAN...

[JoyGirl]

Pardon me?

[Jabberjaw]

From what I can tell most girls who lie about rape do so either to

A. Hurt the man, or

B. Avoid some type of social repercussions/ shame

[ArtemisSilver]

Reputation destruction is the most common form of female on male abuse, and a rape accusation is very damaging even if later disproved.

While lying is just another tool in the bastards toolkit it's particularly effective for women

[ArtemisSilver]

This is actually part of why my phone GPS is always on. It's probably the easiest way to shut down a false accusation by proving you weren't anywhere near them at the time.

[OlderAndWiser]

False rape claims are sometimes motivated by the desire for revenge or the need to create a cover story for a girl who has been unfaithful.

[lightbulb27]

They are hurt deeply… unresolved emotion is driving the behavior.

[UniquelyBasic]

Maybe to feel like they have power over someone. To feel like they have some kind of influence on someone else's life and probably just out of spite.

[Chiarac2003]

Women with self esteem issues. Some are just selfish 🎀

[jshm2]

They do it for the attention. But some do it for the "If I can't have you, no one can" complex.

[nawtee_me]

If you want the man just tell him the child is his. To me it is better to marry the man and have his child.

[Anonymous]

Women do this for power, sympathy, revenge, anger, etc
They know that even if they get caught lying, that they won’t get any repercussions and the guys life will still be ruined.

[bamesjond0069]

Its womens nature. They are emotional creatures and thus act as such.

[captain_voidwalker]

Shit like this is why the marriage rate is less than 6 in 1000 people now

[ACR130]

Amber heard, an example of one of these women That accuse men for something they didn't do

[eblehe]

I think it's called being shit human

[Vendela]

Wanting money or attention

[Agape93]

Because people are pieces of shit

[slatyb]

"Women?" A few will do that. Avoid them.

[talka20]

Chils is his? Maybe for money purpose

[baserunner611]

For kirk, enjoy seeing how far it was goes

[grega239]

Because they know they will be believed.

[TrillXHippy]

Cause they want to ruin a men’s life

[TrillXHippy]

man’s*

[dustybiker]

Mental illness.

[Anonymous]

I will never understand it.

[Tornado92]

Selfish brats!