I tend to fall for construction workers?

[Anonymous]

Even though I'm upper middle class. Why?

[WindAtMyBack]

Hard physical work, and probably a healthy looking body are attractive to you. You also know they aren't lazy. You also know they are capable of fixing things. Having any kind of skill can be attractive. A lot of women, obviously including yourself, don't want some lazy ass guy who can't do anything.

Being upper middle class doesn't really change this type of thing. That would only matter if you were brought up with such distaste for someone "lower" than you that you can't get past your natural inclination.

[FunkyMonkee]

Oh, well, I'd go out with you tonight but I have a bridge to build and then, tomorrow, I have to put up a 38 story skyscraper and the day after that, it's an apartment complex AND a shopping mall, both in the same day! I could get them all done today if I had some help!

[TransAm85]

Yea they are sexy! They make good money. Some of my husband's friends are construction workers. If I have a serious fantasy, it would be a guy dressed in a beater, ULine safety vest, jeans, Timberland boots and he's gotta be somewhat tall and nice V-back. No skinny guys.

[Asker]

The weird thing is, I make 150% their average income but I still tend to prefer them over men from my own profession

[Whatever2929292]

Oh there is nothing wrong with you you like who you like. Now you need to ask someone out. I mean you aren't into men for their money are you? You like them you're into construction workers what else can I say?

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Because you want a guy who is as middle class as possible who works, is manly and possibly also so you can still feel better than they are. Or the other way around.

[Th3ft]

Because you are attracted to men who work… you just need to find out me who will work his way to the top.

[Asker]

I usually don't know their line of work from the start tho?

[Th3ft]

Well I I would say that it is just the way they act and the vibe that they have but that same vibe goes out to a lot of different types of employment. Do you have a lot of construction companies in your are?

[Asker]

There are quite a few

[Th3ft]

Ha! Nice! Well I guess it works out super sexy for you then!

[Wsx2wsx2ws]

You want some one to build you up.
Plus you have not developed the upper middle class snobbism yet. Its not your nature.

[NamerOfStars]

Sweaty proletarian pecs? Maybe you just like guys who you know can wave, nod, and turn a sign around, all at the same time.

[slatyb]

Why worry about it. We like what we like. Is this a problem for you?

[Asker]

Not a problem, just weird because I don't know about it when I first get attracted.

[exitseven]

Construction workers are generally down to earth, hard working guys. Nothing wrong with that. Don't overthink this.

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

Everyone knows posh birds like a bit o' rough, init? 😅

[humanearth]

Believe it or not, but most construction workers earn upper middle class income

[Iron_Man]

And what makes you think they’re the bottom of the list?

[Asker]

They are not! However it's not the type of people I meet in my daily life.

[Iron_Man]

Ok…….

[TheFlak38]

You tend to fall for hot men. Here, I fixed it for you.

[Anonymous]

You seem quite preoccupied with income.

[Asker]

Not about income. I also do not know at the time I get attracted.

[Anonymous]

Well, love ain't a matter of social status, hon

[JessieBellll]

They are hot

[VLAD76]

Don't go flirting too much with construction workers as they could get distracted and end up falling towards you from a great height 🏗️🧑‍🦼🧑‍🦼🧑‍🦼 who'd be left to do all the constructing lol. X

[Nahid1707]

Attraction

[Asker]

it is for sure, but why?

[Nahid1707]

I’m unsure why you do, does anybody else you know date or is married to one?

[Asker]

Nope

[Nahid1707]

Okay, have you dated a few or only been attracted to guys like that?

[Asker]

I have dated a few and the love of my love is one

[james117111]

Maybe masculinity?

[Asker]

Could be