How come really short girl want really tall guys?

[chris_987]

If your 5'0 why go for a guy that 6' or above especially when there not that many. I feel like of girls of all height are only attracted to very tall dudes then your basically saying your 100% ok with sharing a dude.

[Child_Of_Dust]

They gotta be my height + the height of my heels as the minimum. Too tall makes it awkward for hugging or kissing. My rule of thumb, if I only come up to their shoulder, too tall!

[chris_987]

Lol you can't argue that women aren't picky anymore, back in the day women choose men for how well they could take care of the family because women couldn't live without out men. Nowadays day women want men that are taller than them in heels 😂

[Child_Of_Dust]

Height is pretty superficial for me. This is probably for most girls. Character trumps all in my opinion. Character as in mature, well-kept, good career, dating material, etc... Physical characteristics is a bonus. But when I'm setting my online dating profile filters, that's when height comes in, lol!!! Attraction is a big deal too... In the older days, people were more community orientated. The person you married was quite often your neighbor who you played with throughout your childhood. Life was also simpler. You're a farmer, I'm a farmer. Etc. So much in common. lol!!! There was also tradition which kept people in-line so there was more datable people cause fooling around got you a bad reputation.

[chris_987]

Lol I doubt there where any female farmers, most women where milk maids or cooks. Men did most of the real farming. But it proves my point that we don't really take people seriously any more since we decided to put sit superficial things like height and dick size above character and integrity. So hookup culture is really just about men pretending to still be traditional then leaving to go to another girls he can fool into believing he'll be monogamous.

I know that how I feel whenever I talk to a girls who has tattoos and a kid and is still thinking marriage is a viable option for her.

[Child_Of_Dust]

I came from a small town of mennonites and huterites who DO still hold to traditional dating and marriage. There are also lits of cultures that maintain tradition. North America was very unwise to kick tradition out the door thinking it would bring them freedom, but instead it brought chaos. The women I know who are mennonite, work just as hard as the men at farming. If not majority of the farming while the husband works a larger career. Also, all the kids learn to work hard, are mature, marry at 18, and are ready to run their own farm and family. These are some of the wealthier families too, because the community supports each others business, and are family ran... Divorced families are absolutely a detriment for systems like this. Marrying someone IS marrying the family and their business which is actually a positive thing! Parents are wiser than young teens at choosing partners as well, which is where chaprones come in and asking the dad. They filter out the bad for their daughter.

[chris_987]

Yup pretty much what suspected. And I bet dad's aren't choosing wives for there daughter based how much taller than her is in heels

[chris_987]

Explain your name how did you come up with child of dust

[Child_Of_Dust]

I got the idea for my name from the band Thrice, song Child of Dust.

Dear prodigal you are my son and I
Supplied you not your spirit, but your shape.
All Eden's wealth arrayed before your eyes,
I fathomed not you wanted to escape.
And though I only ever gave you love,
Like every child you've chosen to rebel.
Uprooted flowers and filled the holes with blood,
Ask not for whom they toll, the solemn bells.
A child of dust, to mother now return,
For every seed must die before it grows.
And though above the world may toil and turn,
No prying spades will find you here below.
Now safe beneath their wisdom and their feet
Here I will teach you truly how to sleep.

[chris_987]

I thought it was a biblical thing

[Child_Of_Dust]

You could look at it philosophically as well.

[chris_987]

How so

[Child_Of_Dust]

All people come from the dirt and to dirt we return. We have a choice to live peacefully and in harmony with others, we all have the ability to love others, but instead people choose to serve themselves and act according to their own desires. People are capable of great things but often choose to waste it on vanity. Then eventually people return to the ground again. Therefore how can someone live their life in a manner that would have meaning and continue beyond simply the ground people return to. What is the meaning and purpose to the short life people live? If all people are capable of good and beauty why do people continue to choose the opposite (Ie, the problem of evil).

[chris_987]

I would say that women worship vanity more than men do, like makeup and staring at yourself on the mirror all day is vain. If women served men and men served women it would put an end to vanity because we'd be busy taking care of each other.

[Child_Of_Dust]

I'd say the vanity worshipped by gender is done differently. Women may enjoy appearances, social related activities, etc. Men, they like their cars, motorcross, mechanics, etc. Physical motorized objects. In traditional judaism women are seen as the home builders while men the providers. The women decorates the house, keeps the house in order, raising kids, etc. as her form of serving the relationship. The man brings the income, protects, makes sure their other needs are met. I think this system fits 60 or 70% of society. I think as the biological make-up of people, this tends to be what people naturally do, who desire stable and strong relationships. For people that are career-orientated it shifts how the system operates because both become the bread-winner and duties have to be shared more. Makes relationships complicated. For some reason North America seems to push for women to be career orientated, but the practicality of having children and a career is difficult to balance. I'm a huge believer that women should homeschool their kids to avoid the Government-Indoctrination-Schools. Though, if you love your career that would require putting it on hold for like 15 years!!! Then when she returns to her job after her kids are old enough to resist government indoctrination and can attend public school, she has to play catch-up with her career. This is the main reason why women statistically show less earnings over a life-time compared to men. Cause over those 15 years a man probably would receive promotions, salary increases, etc.

[chris_987]

But if the women had like 10 kids im sure that would lighten the load for her and eventually one of those kids should be capable of taking care of there parents.

[Child_Of_Dust]

Yes, that's exactly what they do. Their kids are doing farm chores at like 6 years old. The oldest takes care of the younger, and chores get passed down according to age. They also teach each other school. The daughters learn how to be mom's pretty much as soon as they end up with a younger sibling.

[chris_987]

But now since the opposite is happening all women are left with is a high body count no children, Anti depression medication so she can cope with the fact that she has no family. And she will die alone and forgot. Some women don't even make it to old age without loosing there mind. I read somewhere that the fastest growing homeless population is women, same with mental illness, women are snapping under pressure of realizing they're not gonna find Prince charming one day.

[Child_Of_Dust]

I'm not sure about those facts. I know men have the highest imprison and crime rate. Men also have the highest suicide rate. I know that after a women turns 34 her chances of dating becomes significantly lower and is left with guys who already have kids, divorced, widowed, etc. Guys seem to want women where children are an option. This puts pressure on working women to get married and have chlidren within a narrow timeframe while trying to make their career happen.

[chris_987]

It's comes down to looks for a woman. If she looks good a man will look past a lot of girls flaws.

[Anonymous]

I’m a short girl and I am typically attracted to talk guys but I mostly dare guys who are slightly taller than me. However I don’t see the obsession with wanting some one super tall compare to myself.

[chris_987]

I guess if those girls can get those guys then it's really upto the men if he wants short children

[attackgrrrl]

as a 4’11.5 girl, it’s cuz we feel protected. the shortest i’m going for is 5’4”. the tallest i’ll take is 6’4”. I want to be at their shoulder at most. I also want tall daughters. being a short girl is sort of a curse for me. i wish i was 5’8”.

[chris_987]

But the guy could use the same logic and go after a taller girl Because he doesn't want short children

[Apple1996]

I never really cared about height when dating

[chris_987]

Most girls do, my cousin is 6'3 and she says she hated it when short girls would date guys taller than her.

[WhitneySnow]

If guys didn’t cheat this wouldn’t be a problem

[chris_987]

How are you 16 and think guys cheating is a thing?

[WhitneySnow]

Guys cheat in high school too. My friend’s boyfriend hooked up with a skank at a party a couple weeks ago.

[chris_987]

If he slept with a skank doesn't that mean she also cheated. Both men and women cheat

[WhitneySnow]

They didn’t go all the way. And she didn’t have a boyfriend. He was the one with a girlfriend.

[chris_987]

That's my point, a girls will slept with a guy she's knows is in a relationship, it's ego they feel validation when a guy who is in a relationship sleeps with them. Now my question is, is your friend gonna leave the guy that cheated on her? Probably not because women like guys who can cheat that why they don't leave.

[WhitneySnow]

She dumped him but then he said he was sorry and they got back together

[chris_987]

Yeah that's every relationship where the guy cheats. Your too young to realize this but as you get older your will learn that women want men that can cheat that why they never leave when he does. It's like a child who wants is bored with a toy and when you take it away they kick and scream, so you give it's back. The child doesn't want the toy back, they just want to feel the excitement of having there emotions turned on. It's the same with women you friend likes the pain she felt knowing the guy can cheat on her.

[Boldy_Erin]

I love feeling safe and taken care of

[chris_987]

Even a guy that's the same height as you is stronger than you, going for a guy that's a full foot taller than you was just overkill.

[Boldy_Erin]

I'm 5'4" and my boyfriend is 6'5". I love him and his height.

[chris_987]

Lol hopefully you height does affect the kids