Are you friendzoned if a guy pats a girl's upper back?

[Anonymous]

[Paul_in_Indy]

This sentence is weird. Do you mean that if a guy pats a girl’s back near me, I might be bumped into the friend zone—like, as collateral damage?

Any time a guy touches a girl, he may be thinking of more than friendship. Just because he isn’t trying to put his hand in your hip pocket doesn’t mean he didn’t feel that charge of energy when he touched your shoulder.

[boggboss]

wouldn't say that action means that

[cootjuhh]

yeah or he likes your sexy shoulders

[Passing_by]

Lol no

[Anonymous]

Maybe.