Question about female mind states?

[Anonymous]

Ok so there's this chick who i feel for. I confessed early on and she basically said she wasn't interested. But then we started becoming closer and she started upping the photos of herself she would send. Eventually I obviously thought something of it and i told her that her sending pics made me think she might be thinking something on the low. So we moved on from that... But she's still sending pics...

So i know some chicks just like the idea of a dude fawning over here pics. I've heard of some that legit think stalking is hot, at least when it's a hot dude. I'm fairly good looking as far as dudes go. Do you guys think she just has some kind of kink... Keep in mind she also likes to talk about raunchier things with me 👀. We also happen to be in a situation where we can't be together.

[Whatever2929292]

As long as they aren't dirty photos you would have to ask her.

She rejected you so I would say leave her alone when it comes to that. Just find someone else and if she likes you then you have left the ball in her park. If you think she is playing games then she is also not really worth wasting your time over.

I can't read her mind. Be her friend but don't ask her anymore she knows that you like her and if she really likes you then she will be the one to say something. You have done your part

[Asker]

Yes of course... She's knows, so it's def on her to make any moves in the future 🤷🏾‍♂️. She's also really special to me so I won't be splitting. It's just gonna be what its gonna be.

[Whatever2929292]

Yup... I mean look Asker you have done your part. Don't bother someone and no means no. Even if someone is trying to play games you can't read their mind and it is not worth your time either.

If she likes you and she really wants to be with you then she will come around. Otherwise feel free to date whoever else you want who will give you a chance.

If she is a good friend then I guess it will stay that way. You might be right about what you said in your question she might just be getting a ego boost

[Child_Of_Dust]

This could be a hundred different things. Some girls send pics cause they want compliments, or figure out the best pics to send to the guy she is actually into. I think you are right girls like attention from guys and to know they are liked even if it isn't reciprocal. A pride thing. If she said friends, I'd keep it as friends. Step back a bit to not cause yourself to become more attracted to her. Start looking for other girls.

[Asker]

Lol a bit late to step back. I love her. We're just gonna have to be what we are going forward. She seems ok with the occasional flirt but i guess we'll see how it works. 😅