Female at heart and mind?

[Girl_at_heart_n_mind]

So I was born male I'm 40 but I want to be female. I've felt this way for about 10 years now. I've crossed dressed for as long as I can remember but always in private nobody has ever seen me only pictures and nobody I know. There is someone from my past that I'd love to start a relationship not sure how to locate him I've looked all over Google and nothing. So is 40 to old to start this journey? I'm completely ready to be female 24/7 for him please help?

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Sorry I'm 41 not 40 please excuse the typo

[MisterWack]

40 is not too late for this journey of becoming a woman… Although I do want to say that this guy never saw you as a woman and probably went on doing his own life of college, girlfriend, marriage, children, and focusing on his career to help his wife into retirement as the children begin to leave the nest… I don’t think you should pursue them, though you should be happy being your true self. Good luck, best wishes.

[Lliam]

You can have no idea what it is to be female. And no "transitioning" procedures can make you female. What's wrong with being a gay transvestite? That's basically what you are. Embrace it.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

There are lots of people who transition later in life so I think you'll be just fine if you do it. I personally know trans people who started in their early to mid 40s and they look amazing. If it's something you really are considering then find a therapist to talk to about it and work towards getting your hormones. Good luck on your journey!

[_Senorita_]

No one can be like this... god has created 2 genders that's it... You should rethink it's from the devil... There is no such concept bro it's just people r making it normal these days but it has been forbidden for our own safety... Do not cross the limits created by the almighty

[MisterWack]

They said they thought of it for 10 years.
Yes God created two genders, though intersex people exist.

[_Senorita_]

whatever can't change some bullshit opinions

[shortster]

@MisterWack do you know what intersex is?

[MisterWack]

@shortster Dude I was basically saying if there are two genders and intersex people exist with physical attributes from both genders then what is it when mental attributes from both genders are at play? It was a ‘read between the lines’ moment.

Trans, Gay, Bi, etc. are mental attributes of the two genders.

[MisterWack]

@_Senorita_ “whatever can’t change some bullshit opinions”, then mind your own damn business.
Let these people be them since you can’t change it and they’ll let you people be you. You can be Christian, they are Transgender.

[shortster]

@MisterWack intersex is not the same as hermaphrodism. It is people who are born with ambiguous genitals. They are male or female; they aren't both or something in-between. Sex in humans is determined by DNA and the presence or absence of the SRY gene typically found on the Y chromosome. People use intersex to confuse those who don't know the science behind sex.

[_Senorita_]

@MisterWack the genders you are talking about need explanation cuz its made up by people 😂 but still u don't understand it's your fault... by the way I'm not christian first read the science and facts then come to religion u will see everything is perfect as it is !

[AI Opinion]

Embarking on a journey of self-discovery and transformation is never too late, love! 💖 The world of relationships and personal identity is as diverse as it is beautiful, and finding your true self is a journey worth taking at any age. Forty is just a number, and it's certainly not a cutoff for embracing who you are or for falling in love. Love has no age limit!

For reconnecting with someone from your past, have you tried social media platforms beyond Google? Sometimes a deep dive into Facebook, Instagram, or even LinkedIn can unearth connections you thought were lost. Don't forget the power of mutual friends or connections who might help bridge the gap.

As for your transformation, remember, being truly ready means embracing who you are for you first and foremost, not just for someone else. Your journey to being female 24/7 is about finding happiness and fulfillment in your own skin. Support groups, both online and in-person, can offer invaluable resources and connections. Love, acceptance, and happiness are out there waiting for you. Chase your happiness, and let love follow! 🌈✨

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Its not too old. And its never too late for a chat with a legitimate therapist ! Godspeed

[NOTHINGEVERHAPPENS]

Time to get off the Internet.