The best and in my opinion the only way to a woman's heart is through intellect.
Women if you agree with this comment please list some experiences that men fail at. Yet they keep trying. Help them help you.
Guys please heed this information it will end all your failures at dating and or lack of connection. There is a suggested number of 7 women to every 1 man out there seeking dates. So these men that are seeking should never have an issue of being single if their motives are pure. If you're a total douche then you deserve what you get.
Communication is key. Having a intellectual deep meaningful connection is absolutely the concrete foundation to cementing a long lasting friendship. It is a must to find out what she is interested in, goals, dreams, aspirations. Including what she is doing at the moment to manifest her daily life. Keep the interest flowing in constant conversations about any of those topics with tasteful humor. If you do that then you will spark intrigue and depth that she will admire. If that is accomplished your appearance, sex appeal, bank account, living situation will not even come close to being as important. Because intrigue and intellect is a rare excitement every woman desires. They are starving for that type of connection. Deservingly so in this era. The very best way to dissolve all chances are to comment on her appearance or mention anything sexual what so ever. Until SHE initiates the route of the conversation. If online and the first words are anything of the sort it is a complete turn off (for the right woman seeking true love).
YES: if it is a woman that is a rare gem.
NO: but I'm alone in my mothers basement complaining that women hate me.
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Do you believe the best way to a woman's heart is through her mind?
"through intellect" is how you even get to the family in the first place. "Communication is key." UMMM yep that's why I said it Depends upon the woman = "for the right woman seeking true love" ***Don't come at me through your moms basement computer until you find a woman !
Possibly. But the quickest and more likely foolproof way is through her stomach. You want a girl, you feed her. Doesn't matter if she's strong and independent. Woman loves her food.
I agree with most of what you said. Relationships that are deep and endure are based on this, yes most definitely. Where do you get this “suggested 7 to 1 women online” thing? I don’t believe that for a second. And slight disagreement on the “the best way to dissolve are chances are to comment on her appearance” - no, because even a seemingly neutral or innocent comment on appearance (particularly if irl, not online) does give a hint towards an indication the man is attracted, and that helps in knowing what his interest in you/the conversation is. And that is not a bad thing. But if it was very sexual, or stayed on the topic of appearance well then yes, that’s a red flag he’s not in it for something deeper.
That was the red flag I was referring to. Listen guys in general are very simple stupid people in this message is to not leave them to guess what appearance and sexual indiscretions are. So let’s nip it at the bud. Now this is referring mainly first impressions and using communication with out offending their possible prospects
I found women to fall for a facade depend really on her age. Girls fall for show off bragging bad boy type in teenager years. The later they appreciate matureness in men. Like being serious doer type. Rich guys also are in demand in the female dating market
I believe a girl your age that has good family values and a pure heart would overlook what you are suggesting if you were to heed the advice above. I know some your age that do not want anything less than a man that is truly invested in them. We all could find plenty that fit your examples but by no means am I referring to those types at all.
Best way to a womans heart it to make a small insition in the upper abdomen and through the breastbone and remove 3 ribs on her left side then you will have full access to the heart or...
You could just take her to dinner for a few pints of Guinness and a little smooothhh talk son
They r starving for that connection? Really? Maybe its an age thing but all the girls I know aren’t starving for shit, they just seek pleasure from moment to moment
If you were to take your time as suggested to really open up her soul ( even the one's you are suggesting at any proper dating age) they want what isn't apparently knowledgeable in most men. So they give in to settling with less than. Settling with less than they will take the best of the dumpster trash presented to them. A man your age (if it's listed correctly) should have no problem taking full advantage offering your pure intentions to really be interested enough in her needs not the wants.
I'm 25, but I've not been interested in anything casual well ever really, I tried it as a teen but it wasn't filling the void for me, just making it worse. I always appeal to an individual's soul, but usually there appears to be nothing there. I don't know if it's just Canadian girls, that's what I've heard, but I can't even get a girl to continue a conversation with me unless I talk about really basic boring shit like food or television. I grew up without cable and I feel like all these girls are living in some fake ass alternate universe full of celebrities and shitty pop music, and here I am like some fking alien just looking for a genuine person when everyone is some fake ass wannabe celeb!
LOL, I am talking to a Canadian woman your age at the moment, lol. We started talking about Spirituality interests, and it moved to men questions she had. Then she started sharing her day with me. And then it snapped right into flirtation. I got tempted and enjoyed it too much so I backed us up to reality. She was sold by all the intriguing conversation about what I suggested and that "GOT HER". I wasn't even thinking anything where it went. It is the power to a woman's heart. EXACTLY AS SUGGESTED. I am not messing with you man. you are running out excuses , there are plenty of women out there waiting starving for someone to care about them. Your opening line should be out of your pure intentions purely.
hmmm... I want to believe you... but it's difficult faced with reality... oh don't get me wrong, older women love me XD but women under the age of 25 are a different breed here, times have changed, im tellin ya
Well that is exactly why it is easier than you believe at the moment. All the doubter's and asses out there are not taken advantage of the opportunity every woman TRULY SEEKS. Every woman (any age) together with someone less than or single. You just need to break the ice to allow her guard down.
I think the biggest problem for me at the moment is finding someone with whom I want to put in that effort. Generally when I ask a girl what she's into, I get the lamest fking responses. Then when I inquire further, even lamer. Like for example she'll say "i love philosophy" and when I dig in, I find she doesn't know shit or care at all about philosophy, and all she really does is watch tv and eat and sleep. Fucking boring!
But okay, lets say I find a good one, it happens, how do I get her to let her guard down? I really do need to impress upon you how big hookup culture is tho. Most girls say they are looking for a relationship, but can easily be used as a hookup. Why would I invest into a girl who's just gunna fuck some random dude after a day of knowing him?
To be blunt I have had some short conversations with you. You are coming across narrow minded , doubtful, judgmental, gloomy. This is exactly what you are attracting or the types of people that gravitate towards that. Being positive needs to be practiced by you. Your focus should be in gratitude and hopefulness and or FAITH ! You have a lot of power in attracting what you think. and so let's just turn that around. You can change your entire life in one moment with one thought to be determined to forget the past. erase it out of your mind. Turn all your energy into positive thinking and a true belief that God is preparing a wonderful secure beautiful woman to awaken your soul. While in wait you prepare yourself for her arrival. Throw out negative things in your life that does nothing but collect dust. Clean your living space as if she's on her way over. Start working on your God given talents. Do this and watch the changes in your life manifest. Then get back to me. so first things first. do this.
Are you one of those 'if it's negative, ignore it' types? Do you understand where the world is at, morally, and what we have coming our way?
I can't wallow in delusion like you and the girls. It's true, back when I was 'positive' or ignorant as I prefer to call it, I was surrounded by lots of 'positive' (ignorant) people.
I'm living my goal. Regardless of what is surrounding us some of us will survive this. I attract positive people. Beautiful personalities of many women that love to share their day with me. I help people that struggle with addiction, and I get a front row seat in their life as it blossoms out of doom and gloom. I do exactly everything all of what I suggested to you, continually. I am not bothered by negative thinking or your opinion. I offered a solution that is entirely up to you to do with. No matter what your subconscious download theses suggestions. So I am already in your head. like I said I will be here when your ready to make changes or keep your pain of loneliness.
I asked what your goal was lol I don't have a front row seat to your life, so can you in a single sentence summarize your goal in life? Ex. to run across Canada like terry fox, to free the slaves, etc
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