Girls, Why did she giggle when I asked her how her presentation went?

[ando90]

She was telling me last week that she had a presentation due this week for her studies. I asked her today how it went and she giggled. She then said she got an extension cause she was sick. I then asked if she is feeling better and she giggled again.

[Child_Of_Dust]

I think guys are robots some times. She giggled maybe cause she was embarrassed or thought she was tricky in getting her presentation moved. She giggled again, cause maybe she actually wasn't sick and thought it was funny she fooled everyone.

[ando90]

Could she have giggled because she liked the fact I remembered and asked her

[Child_Of_Dust]

Yes, that could be a definite possibility too. Body language things, I'd pretty much have to be there to figure it out. If she feels you care about her and expressing it, she could be giggling because she feels flattered. If my first option sounds wrong, I think what you posed could be it.

[ando90]

She knows my name too. She is literally a coffee shop lady. She then asked me how are things with me too. She always lights up when she sees me

[Child_Of_Dust]

Ah okay, I think she is definitely flattered that you remembered those facts about her and asked her. If that is the case, she probably has a suspicion that you're interested in her. Are you interested in this girl and thinking of getting to know her more?

[ando90]

I do like this girl. She was the one who started waving and smiling at me when she and I never had spoken. She would get overly excited to see me when she didn't even know me. She has asked me questions like where I live and where I grew up etc

[Child_Of_Dust]

Totally ask her when her lunch break is, or to see her after work!!

[ando90]

What are your thoughts? She said a while back when we established each other's name. She said " I've wondered what your name is given we've spoken heaps but I didn't know your name"

[Child_Of_Dust]

I think she could be interested. Honestly, I don't think there is any harm in trying. I don't believe in dragging things out. Either she is interested or not. It is better to meet with someone, have a coffee date, get to know them for realz, then you know, right?

Maybe you could do something cool, like ask for a napkin, write your name on it, then give it back to her with a wink. At that point, the ball is in her field. If she doesn't text you, whatever. You can still continue having fun flirting at the coffee shop. But if she does text you back, even better!

[Child_Of_Dust]

Correction, write your phone number on the napkin.

[ando90]

I randomly sent her friend request on facebook. She happen to be a mutual friend of mine. She accepted my friend request. When the 2 of us started chatting for the first time it felt like we just knew each other

[Child_Of_Dust]

Ah great. So you already have a method of contact.

[ando90]

She makes me happy when we talk. Yesterday I said " I'll head off cause you look busy at work" her response said " no that's ok"

[ando90]

But she always seems happy when we talk. I really like her and I think she looks really cute too

[Child_Of_Dust]

There is also value in taking your time in getting to know someone as well. Our minds like to fool us into believing someone is perfect when we only see 10% of who they actually are. But with time we start to see more and realize their humanity. I think once two people know each other's strengths and weaknesses, is when dating is worth considering. Prior to knowing someone could be too early.

[ando90]

Do you think she likes me?

[Child_Of_Dust]

I don't so much ask the question "does she like me?" Instead, I ask the question, "Does she seem to be enjoying my company, cause I enjoy her company. Maybe we could go for lunch and share even more company."

"Does she like me?" I think can be a superficial question. What do you mean by like? Does she know you? What does she like? It is layered and complicated. But what is present, evident, and easier to analyze is if conversation is fun, light, and easy. The rest, "does she like me?" follows suit accordingly and with time of getting to know one another.

[ando90]

That is a good way of looking at it. Our conversation seems fun. When I was talking to her yesterday I wanted to stay and keep talking with her. She and I were smiling, she laughed a bit too. She even giggled when I asked how her presentation went this week. She told me last week she was nervous about it. This week I remembered and I asked how she went. Then she giggled