Is this girl trying to tell me something by accidently sending me a text that was meant for her ex?

[Anonymous]

So I've been hanging out with this girl that I've been seeing for a few months. We went out the other day and she brought up a video on YouTube that was relevant to the topic that we were talking about. She told me that she would send me the link to the video in that moment but instead of sending me the link she sends me a text that was directed to her ex-boyfriend. It was more of a text fight. She just tells me to ignore it but then briefly goes into context on what they were arguing about. The thing is that she never sent me the link after the accidental text so this got me wondering. Do you think that she sent me the text on purpose? If so what is she trying to tell me by sending me that text and trying to play it off as if it were an accident.

Everytime I hang out with this girl she finds a way to talk about her ex. She talks about how abusive he's been and all that. I'm just confused because she's always throwing me signs that she's interested. She plays around with her hair a lot, and she constantly looks at me with a seductive gaze; always wants to make plans with me etc.

I really like this girl but I'm just really confused as to why she is always bringing up her ex. Is she giving me hints of how she does not want to be treated or is this something that girls normally do when they are seeing a new guy?

[nogoodvibes]

I'd say that she hasn't healed completely from her past relations, she wants to be with you but is scared of getting hurt again so she tries to bring up convos of her ex to tell you indirectly that she's been through a lot and doesn't wanna go through it again. It's just a way of saying ' Don't treat me the way he did' and she might be trying to find if you're anything like her ex. And ofcourse that text was intentional. You can talk it out with her if you really like her just tell her that you won't treat her the same way and also uk help her (if u can) to see life beyond the past. Hope you do what suits you best! : )

[AssholeNumberOne]

Yeah she def sent that text on purpose. Also, I wouldn't recommend getting with her unless you wanna be talked about that way if you ever break up. She shouldn't talk about her ex to random people, it gives her a bad name like that.

[DarkWinterNights]

One instance is too little information to make a determination. But if she’s always bringing up her ex she has some unresolved issues that she’s bringing into her relationship with you. That fact that she’s still texting him is a red flag. That’s going to cause problems so you need to ask yourself whether or not you’re okay with that.

[NZGirl07]

Seems like she did it on purpose. I was going to say she did it to tell you she was single but if she's always talking about her ex that's strange. She clearly isn't over him somehow so she shouldn't be trying to date you.

[Marshymallow]

It wasn't meant for you. Stop reading too much into everything, this is not a movie