Girls: would you be offended if you don’t get the attention you expect from a guy?

[Anonymous]

There is this woman I see everyday at the volleyball park, she’s there with a guy (I don't know if it’s her boyfriend). She seems to be a few years older than me, but this woman trains like a teenager. Most men in the park stare at her and she doesn’t even know it. She always has a smile on her face, she motivates her teammates and has this positive vibe. I’ve never talked to her, I’ve caught her looking at me many times, she has waved and smile a few times but I didn’t know how to react to her…so I ended up ignoring her and left her hanging. Now, she acts very serious and distant with me, doesn’t smile or anything. What should I do?

[upzdayz]

Well, you should start showing signs of appreciation and interest in what she does. Be as kind and friendly as she has been to you. She seems sweet so approach her in a friendly. Showing interest will bring you closer but first, you might wanna find out if she is single before you make any relational moves. If you want more advice then message me and I could be able to help. but you'd have to be the one willing to make the moves and share more info. also showing that you care and realize the things she's doing will make her feel more noticed and can really make her day.

[kao118]

I suppose I would. You should have just smiled at her and waved. Maybe she was taken aback by how you didn’t seem to be nice. You should try going up to her and introducing yourself.

[Agagagagaga]

Why? So she can think he’s a creep and then complain about how some guy wouldn’t leave her alone?

[kao118]

@Agagagagaga maybe mention that you thought she wasn’t looking at you, usually we genuinely get when guys are shy , it’s not a big deal. Besides, you’re not stalking her, you’re just saying hi

[Agagagagaga]

You don’t seem to understand how many women complain about men speaking to them.

[Whatever2929292]

How is this under NO OPINIONS?


Nobody unless you are in a relationship or good friends or family is entitled to attention

[Anonymous]

More men should ignore women. You did the right thing.

[EmmaMary]

Not in the slightest... After all it could very well have been his loss!

[TacosRAwesome]

Unless I'm dating him or in a relationship with him, I don't see why he should give me attention.

[Anonymous]

No i would just use all my little tricks until he did.

[Tinylatina91]

Not offended just curious why he won’t pay attention to me

[Ms_Facesitter]

No, but I would be sad if I liked him.