Make up your mind?

[donkeyhehe]

Why is it that a woman won't talk to you and act interested then disappear and then get mad when we do the same to you

[PrettyPriya]

I am unsure what girl is going to refuse to talk to someone and then act interested while doing so. That doesn't seem possible. Either she will chat and be interested or not have any at all.

I don't get mad when a guy disappears on me. Of course, I take this to mean you are referring to ghosting someone dating-wise. I write that up as a loss and move on. There is no reason to dwell or be upset about it.

Sometimes things just don't work out and the quicker people come to that realization, the easier it is to get over it and move on with life. I am certainly not going to get overly upset about it.

I also don't ghost people. If I am going to end a relationship, I talk to that person and give a reason. To just disappear is rude. Luckily, I have not had that happen to me. Now, as to why a girl might do this? Could be any number of reasons. I could sit here and list a ton.

However, often it is because she finds out the guy is arrogant or has a poor attitude. Those contribute to the overall personality of someone. Those poor qualities would certainly be reasons for me not wanting to give him the time of day.

[SassyAussieAddy]

You might say anyone would probably be a bit upset regardless of gender.

[Anonymous]

Some women like the chase.

[Anonymous]

cause we want you to chase us