Should girls hide their body?

[Anonymous]

Should girls have to hide their body and wear baggy clothes just been can't stop looking at them? Is it the girls fault? Why do us girls have to hide out buddy's for something we don't control?

[ChrisMaster69]

No they should not.

clothing really does not matter.

I think a lot comes down to the country this occurs in, some are pretty much still in 1700’s.

i know when out in my local city at weekend etc, mini dresses etc, just become background noise.

i would put money on a girl wearing a coat in Newcastle would get stared at more than a girl in a micro dress and crop top.

To quote a friends fav saying

it’s not how’s she’s dressed it’s just them thinking like a rapist.

Also in a lot of places it’s not really good for your health to stare overly long at a girl, I’ve seen a guy beaten up for doing just that (he had been told not to by the girl).

it’s basic respect.

[Reaper1985]

I don't expect or desire for a female to hide her body with baggy clothing. I just like when they wear more figure flattering outfits that showcase their body. without needing to expose what's under their clothing to those around them. so I tend to prefer when a female wears more modest or conservative outfits. since I typically find those to be attractive for out in a public setting. I find females who wear more proactive or reveling clothing in public are often seeking attention or validation from others to some degree.

[WhitneySnow]

No. We should not. If we choose to hide our bodies that’s a diff story.

[Truthatanycost]

Men should stop giving women attention. We all have the self control to do this. The girl in this Take would be complaining if everywhere she went she was invisible to men... be careful what you ask for, because eventually you might just get it...

Then you have girls like the one in this clip trying to bait men into looking for 2 seconds to make a victim video:

https://www.youtube.com/embed/Xbobxc3iGmw

[LogicBomber]

The piece of shit female in this video is the reason I am beginning to hate most women. She strips down to a sports bra in a public area and then acts like a c”nt victim when exposing herself gets attention.

If a guy stripped down and exposed his dick in spandex... she’d be the first to tap her friend and gawk at him.

[MrCon10t]

Think about it this way. You don’t control the weather, but you still own an umbrella. You may not be able to control your body’s attractive quality, but guys can’t control their lust and desires either. As a guy, I can tell you that s&@t is intense. So no, you don’t have to use your umbrella when it’s raining, but don’t complain when you get wet.

[soe11]

Other way around men should not be looked with dirty eyes and minds.
We must control our evils emotions.
Female can choose to wear anything what they like according to costume and culture.
My girlfriend is exhibitionist as well as her mom too, but wear accordingly such as environment and function.
Everyday outfits normally shows leg's wearing shorts and mini micro skirts.

[Anonymous]

What are you hiding. No I believe the opposite. Everyone should be naked and on an "equal" playing field. As a nudist, that's the entire idea behind it. It becomes "normal" and everyone is the same and there's no judgements. We all have flaws and body issues, it's normal as human beings.

[OddBeMe]

toughy. School admins definitely blame girls for guy's gazes.

Although... I'd say some of the wardrobe I've seen on female girl prepubescent X chromosome... small people... to be too adult-ish. Mini skirts should not be in a child's clothing store. But maybe I'm just getting old.

[TheMajesticKing777]

Not to the point of bagginess but showing too much is also a thing tho

[serious]

No, a woman should not hide her body. No, it is not the woman's fault if the man looks at with wrong intentions.

The man has to change his attitude and mindset and not the woman.

[Chris_8036]

For some strange reason I'm not allowed to walk around with my dick hanging out either. Hmm...🤔

[Chris_8036]

Well, it goes both ways lady. We all have to dress appropriately in public.

[EllaNella]

i don't think op is talking about letting her vagina flab around

[Chris_8036]

@EllaNella
So basically she's upset that she can't wear tight clothing in public without people looking at her.
We all have the option and responsibility to dress however we feel the most comfortable in public. We don't have the option to control other people's eyeballs, or where they look.
I wouldn't wear sweatpants with no underwear, then complain that people are looking at my penis showing through. Instead I just wear jeans that aren't too tight and go on with my life.

[EllaNella]

Obviously we cannot control other people, we can criticize their lack of self control though. Not wearing tight/revealing clothing is one way to go, it does not mean that bad behavior from other should'nt also be condemned. The world isn't black and white and people should learn to mind their own business and not flat out stare at others in public.

[Chris_8036]

@EllaNella
That's a very entitlist view though.
Obviously it's illegal to follow or harass a person in public, but under no circumstances are we allowed to expect others to look at the ground when we walk by, or look in the other direction.
Wearing curtain clothing attracts certain attention, this is nothing new.
We all have to do our part to dress appropriately in public.

[EllaNella]

please point to where i said people should look at the ground or in another direction

there is a difference between looking at a person - often an involuntary reaction, that doesn't take longer than a few seconds -
and staring at someone, an act that is considered rude in almost every social setting.

i strongly believe in the utility of courtesy rules and they should not be thrown out the window because of someones clothes.

[Chris_8036]

@EllaNella well
Well good luck with that, lol.
What it basically always boils down to is that so. e women dress in revealing clothing that they know will get people staring.
Their real problem is that they only like people they find attractive to star at them.
They basically want unattractive people to look away.
Otherwise they would just go to the mall and buy some normal clothing to fit their body type.
Being too attractive is never gonna get any sympathy.

[Chris_8036]

*Stare

[EllaNella]

Do you have any study you base that assessment on or is it only the way you think women think?

And why do you care about people being "too attractive"? Aren't there many many more important things in life than the looks and clothes of strangers?
I can think of at least 5 things right now that i'd rather focus on than what other people are wearing/how attractive they are

[Chris_8036]

@EllaNella
My study is based on 15 years of marriage, and 42 years of experience living in public.
I'm telling you the truth.
You can go around being pissed off at every unattractive guy who checks you out, but it literally means nothing, it isn't against the law to look and nobody cares except entitled individuals who think society is supposed to appease them, rather than us adapting to public life, and following the real rules (Laws) that are already in place.
You CAN go to the police if you are being harassed or stalked by people, you CAN'T control were people look in public, or for how long they look.
You CAN however, walk away and go about your business.

[EllaNella]

so you are basing your assessment of billions of people on your own subjective, anectdotal experience. I have nothing more to say on that front as you do not seem to care about empirical thinking.

You also do not seem to value self discipline and courtesy, instead calling me entitled because i respect those values.

We seem to disagree on the fundamentals of how society should function. I made my point clear and i have nothing more to say to you as i am not interestend in conversations that run in circles

[Chris_8036]

@EllaNella
You aren't interested because you have a view of life based on youthful idealism.
There's too many people to base our laws around some concept of "Officer, he looked at me for too long!!" It's the height of first world problems.

[EllaNella]

I am also not interested in continuing this conversation because you fail to properly consider my points and decide to misrepresent them instead. Considering your high age i guessed you'd have better reading comprehension skills

[Chris_8036]

@EllaNella
You would have to have a point first.
Is it rude to stare in public? Maybe, obviously it depends who's starring at you doesn't it?
Like I said, that's what it always comes down to.
If we're uncomfortable because someone is looking at us in a public space, for the public, we have the option to separate ourselves from that person. If they continue to follow, it may be considered harassment depending how it plays out.

[EllaNella]

The point i made is: staring is rude, therefore it should be societally discouraged and not defended as you are doing.
I also already said that there are measures that can be taken to reduce the probability for other people to notice you. But the more important thing is to discourage behavior that is rude and should not be displayed instead of telling those who it is directed towards to change their behavior.
Self discipline should be encouraged in all people and that includes not losing any sense of courtesy because of some clothes. It is just another small step towards living in a civiliued society

[Chris_8036]

@EllaNella
Like I said, good luck with that.
People are going to do whatever they're inclined to do as long as it's within their legal rights.
Going around shaming people for starring at other attractive people in public is just gonna get you in ridiculous arguments, and probably called a Karen or something. It's pushing your personal standards upon others when they within their legal rights to sit on a bench and look anywhere they choose, for as long as they like.

[EllaNella]

As it is my legal right to criticize animalistic and emotionally driven behavior. People who cannot control themselves have weak characters, they can complain as much as they want

[Chris_8036]

@EllaNella
They don't have to complain though. It's perfectly legal to look around at anyone in public.
You don't have a leg to stand on if you're harassing people about it. They could basically call the police and have you escorted away from them in that scenario.
The problem with the whole "Starring is rude and should be banned argument" is, who decides when it's a problem? Obviously Chris Hemsworth or Henry Cavill could turn and look at a woman and she's most likely going to be receptive to that attention. If some hobo living behind a dumpster, or some ugly guy was looking at her she's likely going to feel threatened and uncomfortable. That is an example of how shaming people for starring at others in publicly could be considered elitism, discriminatory, and basically the rules would only apply to ugly people.
If they outlawed starring in public, most women would get angry because now the super hot guys can't even look at them. It's a completely flawed concept to try and control people's eyeballs.

[Chris_8036]

*Staring, autocorrect issue.

[EllaNella]

ok i'm out, like i said, this is a circular conversation and you have nothing new or evidence based to say and are constantly misrepresenting my points.

[Chris_8036]

@EllaNella
If you can't stand the heat stay out of the kitchen.
Thank you for stopping on my answer, have a nice day.

[RuthlessAggression]

I dc what a woman wears, but a man should not be telling her what to wear

Guys, don't do this. You will regret it

[Anonymous]

You don't have to do anything, but neither we, and we can and will look. It's unfortunate if you feel that a male heterosexuality is sexist, but that's a YOU problem. No man has the right to touch you but we are allowed to look.

[888theGreat]

Most women should be like this spare us men

[one1wild00]

No, guys should keep their mouths shut and visually enjoy an ideal situation.

[Anonymous]

No but they should have to wear clothes and have dignity like men are expected to.
Yes it is females fault for exposing themselves and getting sexual attention they are desperately looking for.

[BarryLiverstone]

Nope you don’t have to hide. Don’t you feel good when noticed?

[Anonymous]

Id rather not see girls do that, but if any girl has a legit reason or just doesn't like wearing revealing clothes, than that's fine by me.

[Mate99]

They don't always have to wear baggy clothes. But yeah not wearing revealing clothes is better

[Anonymous]

No, they better show their body, as lon as it is not hairy

[Anonymous]

Girls are naturally made better than men... why hide it?

[In_Trance]

they should do whatever they feel comfortable with

[Sabretooth]

you should respect sexual power of your body.

[DevinAM]

No one should have to hide their body.

[FunkyMonkee]

No. Not at all.

[EnglishEuropean]

Not for me.

[Xtendable]

Don’t hide