Ladies, (guys can also answer) do you think it’s fair to expect a guy to be over 6ft but not fair for him to have physical expectations for you?

[Roden_Hartsough]

Yes I do

No I don’t

[Man-O-Metal]

Not fair at all. If a girl is mad that I'm 5'9" and that's the reason she doesn't want to go out with me, OK, fine. I guess she won't get to know how sweet, funny, gentlemanly, and how much of a good listener I am. I'll just go find someone who appreciates that and doesn't put height first. Now if height is a preference but not a deal breaker, that's more fair. You're at least opening your window for guys.

[Whatever2929292]

I think it is fine for romantic relationships to have standards and preferences. NOT all women are like that and neither are all men.


As far as judging someone as a human being that is wrong. Everyone has standards and preferences nothing wrong with that

[Anonymous]

Unfair. Can’t help how tall/short you are. Some people just have ridiculous priorities, in my opinion.
It is unfair to expect one thing but not the the other have the same

[SassyAussieAddy]

Everyone is allowed to have their own wants and desires for others but not everyone has the same ones.

[Whatever2929292]

Exactly

[slatyb]

Fair? There's no "fair" in dating. There's no entity in charge of allocating partners. Women who only date men six feet tall will have much less choice than women who are more open-minded.

[Avicenna]

Anyone can have any expectation they want, but everyone can’t get that, so may remain single when they otherwise wouldn’t.

[MikeInHawaii]

But we’re not supposed to fat shame. A woman can put down the Pringles and go for a jog a lot more easily than I can grow five inches.

[idonotexist]

I was just eating Pringles 😩

[MikeInHawaii]

@idonotexist As long as it is a snack, in moderation, and not the main staple of your diet, you should be fine!

[Anonymous]

I don't expect them to be any height, they are what they are when I meet them.

[JakeS00]

I'm not understanding what's not "fair."

[In_Trance]

Fair and legit