If a girl a says she doesn't want to get married or have kids, do that means she just wants random hookups for the rest of her life?

[chris_987]

[Babybebe15]

I don’t think so, it could just mean she doesn’t believe in marriage and just doesn’t see herself as a mother. Doesn’t mean she wants to sleep around.

[chris_987]

But that's enviable because if a girl says she is celibate for six months, she is basically looking for the next guy that's not gonna commit to her. Because she doesn't require married so what is there to commit too.

[Smashingdoozy]

No. I don't want to get married. I think it's pointless. I don't want to birth kids, but I would adopt and consider surrogacy.

I've never been into hook up culture. Never even done it. These are just my views on life abd what is best for me

[chris_987]

So how do you envision your love life because a lot of girls feel this way so I'm just trying to understand it

[Smashingdoozy]

What do you mean? I envision finding someone whom I love and want to spend the rest of my life with. I don't need a piece of paper and a fancy ring to show that I love someone.

[chris_987]

So you still want commitment but just don't want to get married, and have kids. So basically you just want to grow old with a guy

[Smashingdoozy]

Yeah. I want kids I just can't birth them

[chris_987]

Why can't you birth them

[Smashingdoozy]

My chances of complications is incredibly high and my life would be risked.

[chris_987]

You got something wrong with your ovaries

[Smashingdoozy]

Well I only have one thanks to an ectopic pregnancy...

[chris_987]

Same thing happened to girl I know, she still have birth. Even though she said she would never have children. That the power of someone you love I guess

[Smashingdoozy]

I don't want to risk my life.

[chris_987]

Love will make you do crazy

[Smashingdoozy]

Love won't make me risk my life.

[chris_987]

I'm willing to bet otherwise

[Smashingdoozy]

Then you clearly don't know me

[chris_987]

So your on birth control or do you practice abstinence

[Smashingdoozy]

Technically both currently

[chris_987]

Lol explain what you mean, by both

[Smashingdoozy]

I'm on birth control and I'm not currently having sex with anyone

[chris_987]

So what the birth control for if your not having sex. Do you use it as a form hormone therapy. I heard girls be using birth control to stop having periods

[Smashingdoozy]

Yes that and it was inserted while I was still in a relationship.

[chris_987]

Hmm I read somewhere that messing with your hormones like that causes women to be schizophrenic. But I suppose your free to lo e life however you want.

[Smashingdoozy]

Uh no. Definitely not.

[chris_987]

So you don't have any hormonal issues

[Smashingdoozy]

I have issues.

[chris_987]

Most women do in 2022. Compared to women of the past. But that was inevitable

[Smashingdoozy]

Not true. We are just more aware of the issues and don't ignore them.

[chris_987]

Hmm no I disagree, simply because most people in the West are vitamin deficient. Because of the GMO lack of nutrient dense food we eat. And that alone can cause depression and weight gain. The birth control pills and anti depression medication play a smaller role compared to us eating food that puts us in an early grave

[EllaNella]

no it just means she doesn't want to get married and have kids

[chris_987]

So what does her love life look like if she doesn't want a long term relationship

[EllaNella]

marriage isn't a synonym for a long term relationship. you do not have to get married to be with someone long term

[chris_987]

Based off the old definition it is, married literally means tied together. But either way my point was girls still want long term relationships. They just don't like the idea of marriage for some reason

[EllaNella]

nobody uses marriage as a synonym for a long term relationship. it is a legal definition

[chris_987]

Marriage as a concept existed long before we even had a legal system.

[LazerBean]

Usually