What is a sure way to know if a girl genuinely likes you or just keeps you around because she likes to receive your attention and validation?

[castolo22]

[PrettyPriya]

I’ll start by saying sorry for my lack of ability to break this into paragraphs. There were site updates and it is causing my opinions to not be able to be put into separate paragraphs. So, sorry for that in advance.

You need to look at the signs from her. If she is genuinely interested in you, she will likely be flirty to the point you would notice. If she just wants validation, she will most likely do that on occasion when she feels she needs it. Any other time, she won’t want to be bothered. These are very superficial type of girls that will not want to be bothered other than when they feel that need for validation.

If she is always wanting your attention, chances are she is into you. If it is the sort of thing where she only acts a certain way here and there and otherwise can’t be bothered, likely she is doing it for validation and to help whatever insecurity she has.

[Gene9]

Try to talk about commitment indirectly and see her reaction

[Anonymous]

She takes an interest in you as a person and your life. If she's using you, she won't at all, and this is never faked because they don't care at all (and you can tell easily if genuine or not by the attitude and behavior).

[Gent207]

Observe what happens when you withhold your attention and validation🤷‍♂️.

Really depends on context and other factors.

[Rockstarrrrr]

Well she has to make a move at some point.. If she didn't then she's not into you

[Anonymous]

She's willing to take the time to get to know you.

[ChrisMike1919]

Read between the lines. You'll know eventually.

[Anonymous]

You can never know for sure.