Does it mean anything if a girl touches your arm and stomach?

[Anonymous]

So i was at the club with my social circle and there is this girl that I like and she was there too, but we never really talked that much together.

I always get nervous around her and she noticed that. She asked me twice why i always get nervous, a week ago, and then again 2 days ago.
the second time she asked me that she also asked me “why do you get nervous around girls?” And i said “i dont know”. Then she asked me “dont you have a girlfriend?” and i said no.

Back to the topic, she told me to come outside with her to discuss something. It was about an actual topic that came up within our social circle (id rather not share it).

During the talk she touched my arm and later she put her hand on my belly. I got a bit when she put her hand there and i leaned a bit back so that there was a gap between my belly and her hand, but she moved her hand to touch me there again.

The weird part is that her girl friend was there with her the whole time, but a bit more distant (physically). Then someone else came and she took her hands off.

now I’m not sure if she is just a touchy girl or not. Maybe I’m overthinking this, what do you people think?

[Lliam]

People touch each other when they want a deeper connection.

Touch is the quickest way to build attraction. In fact, it is arguably the only way to build a real sexual attraction. It is how you say you’re attracted to someone without saying it. Touching to build attraction is an art form.

The most difficult part of adding touch to your repertoire is how to pull it off. A good touch will go almost entirely unnoticed. It takes time to master. A poorly executed touch is noticeable instantly.

One of the quickest ways to get a read on how somebody feels about you is through the use of touch. One of the signs that somebody is interested in you is through what’s known as “reciprocal touching” – she touches you after you touch her. For example: you touch her on the arm while you’re making a joke, then take your hand back – casually, not like you’ve just been scalded – and wait. This gives her an opportunity to decide how comfortable she feels. If she’s interested, she’ll find an excuse to touch you back, most likely in the same fashion.

The best way to initiate a touch at the beginning is in response to an emotional high-point. For example, when you’re telling a story, a moment to touch someone briefly (three seconds or so) is during a check-in: you casually touch the person you’re interested in on her upper arm with the back of your hand as you say “seriously, check this out.” Another time would be when she tells you something that makes you laugh – touching her shoulder or upper back with your fingertips.

Similarly, if you or she want to whisper conspiratorially and share a secret, gently placing your fingertips on her forearm as you lean in can be electrifying. It feels much more intimate – in a good way – and reinforces the “us vs. them” feeling, framing the two of you as a conspiracy of two watching everyone else.

As you continue talking and flirting and she grows more comfortable with you, you want to move to more deliberate, playful forms of touching.

https://guardian.ng/life/culture-lifestyle/the-art-of-flirting-by-touch/

[Iron_Man]

I think it could be

[Asker]

Sorry, what could be? Me overthinking?

[Iron_Man]

It usually means that she likes you women don’t usually touch for no reason

[Asker]

Hmm i see, I don't know maybe she was just being friendly and is touchy.

[Iron_Man]

That’s also possible why don’t you invite her to lunch

[Asker]

I’m scared.

[Iron_Man]

Well what if she says yes then you’ll be thrilled you gotta go for the gusto