- Girlfriend whose 23 didn’t know they were going to swim, so she didn’t bring her swim wear. She see goes to the beach and there aren’t many people around, she wants to go in. There’s 2 guys sitting on her right and one female. All three are young and going to the gym from the way they look. One her male cousin was on the phone she quickly took her clothes of at started walking into the water with her thongs. She didn’t wait for her cousin to get off the phone. She wanted to go in before them. Walks standing up inside the water for 3/5 mins in her thongs. I know the water was shallow just over her knees the whole way. She sits down for 2 minutes in the water and one of the guys in her right sits right next to her. She gets up and starts walking away more in towards the water without saying anything. The guy is following her from metre just behind her. He asks her name and constantly complimenting her. Bare in mind she’s walking with her thongs. She walks for 2 minutes without saying anything and the guys just talking behind her and following. She told me she was walking fast. The male cousin comes from behind and intervenes, it stops there. The male cousin and the guys almost had a fight. She swims with her cousins for 10 minutes and sits out side on the side so her legs are in the water. The guys are just sitting on the right again couple metres away.
- As a women what would you have done
Since she was not naked and kept her underwear and bra on, I see no problem in going for a swim, mainly in view of the fact that relatives were nearby to protect her from perverts and other harassers.
I personally would never go for a swim solely in my underwear and bra because I don't like to use those clothes to go for a swim. I would just refrain from going into the water.
It is unavoidable to have guys thinking that they can attempt to harass a girl that goes for a swim in her underwear because in their twisted minds, they think that the girl wants something.
She did behave correctly by moving away from him, although she should have told him to leave her in peace and to stop following her.
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Other guys were there? And you weren’t present? Not acceptable. I would never do this in a serious and committed relationship. If I were single or casually dating, then absolutely, I would.
Other than material, no different than having a thong bikini
Because younger woman don't have self respect.
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