Tall girls, why is it so common for you to reject men for being short?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Of course my perspective doesn’t apply to everyone, but I have varying reasons. I’ve given 3 men either exactly my height (5’6) or shorter a chance, and each time I didn’t really feel the level of comfort and protection I feel with taller men. It also made me feel awkward, because even though I’m not a heavy girl by any means, I always felt bigger than the guy. Then their initially kind personality was what made me give those men a chance but each one started showing crazy anger and jealousy issues I never experienced with taller men.

[Fr9944j]

Thanks for sharing. I think it sounds like if a short man was to be successful with loving a taller woman, hr would have to be very secure in himself. Maybe thats rare.

[Opinion Owner]

I completely agree.🙏

[Fr9944j]

I would guess other tall girls may do that if they were conditioned by others to discriminate by height.

Me personally I don't recall being asked out by a shorter man and I don't think I naturally would have a problem with it. I am traditional but I am open to the possibility of being with a shorter man and see how I feel about it. I can imagine hugging him with my arms around his neck/shoulders LOL its cute!

[2Wheels]

I never understood why height is so important to most girls. I really don't care as long as you're a nice guy.

[Ms_Facesitter]

I haven't yet. I actually have been rejected for being tall.

[Bee-Hatch]

You're on your way to 30 and haven't worked how basic attraction works. There are people who are your type, and people who aren't. It can be any type of characteristic. But if you're not attracted to someone then there's nothing you can do.

[Asker]

Yes I have a type but I'm not going to reject someone just because they're not my type. What you're saying is that you can't be attracted to someone because they're not you're type.

[Bee-Hatch]

No there's thigs that are nice to have like a particular height. Then there's more fundamental things like what gender you choose.

[Asker]

But then height might be a preference but not exclusively a requirement.

[Bee-Hatch]

Thanks for taking what I just said reworking it and passing it back to me. That adds so much to the discussion.

[Marshymallow]

I feel like short guys are usually insecure when they date taller women. So what’s the point of me wasting my time on them?

[Asker]

I feel like tall women are usually insecure about dating shorter men. Only I'm not implying there is no point in dating tall women. Yes, I avoid approaching tall women, because I want to avoid guaranteed rejections, but that doesn't mean I would rule out dating a tall woman if I were certain my height wouldn't be an issue.

[Marshymallow]

I’ve flirted with guys like 1 or 2 inches taller than me. When I wear heels they act insecure and the only thing they talk about is height. So heck no for me. Insecure short guys are a no no, Very unattractive!

[Asker]

And secure short guys?

[2facedfa1ry]

Girls prefer boys to be taller than them, just like most guys want girls to be shorter than them

[Asker]

Prefer or require?

[2facedfa1ry]

strongly prefer