Did she and I have a moment the other day?

[Anonymous]

This girl and I have been standing next to each other heaps and she is making small conversation with me when she doesn't know me. We found out we weren't in the same cat for this training exercise and we both looked at each other, she said " I guess I'll see you a bit later". We just looked at each other.

I was sitting next to her at lunch last weekend and she started a conversation about what my go to sandwich is? As in my favourite type of sandwich.

[Craftsman]

Sounds to me like she feels safe near you, and is exploring the possibility of that feeling of safety to grow toward a relationship, one small step at a time.

If you are attracted, and you see the potential of a possible friendship/relationship/whatever, then play along. Maybe even take a few small steps of your own toward her and see what happens.

The best relationships I've seen in life started in a similar way. The longest lasting start as friendship and develop from there. It's a good place to start.

Best of outcome, whatever that may be.

[Asker]

I am starting to have feelings for her. There has been a few things happen too. For example, she didn't use to say anything to me and then I've noticed she started making small talk with me. Making conversation with me that didn't have to be said. She then started standing next to me at training sessions and pointing her foot towards me. I noticed when I sit next to her she crosses her legs and the leg that is crossed over the top of her other leg, her foot is virtually nearly touching my leg. So I know her foot is pointing in my direction

[Anonymous]

She was just making small talk, but try to be more engaging.

[Asker]

I am being more engaging with her. As a matter of fact she seems to be the shy like one with me. But I've noticed she is starting to make conversation with me. However, she has started standing closer with me and pointing her foot towards me have it like very close to my leg. Plus she has been doing some light teasing with me

[Asker]

Plus I've noticed something with her, if I'm talking to someone else or just another lady. She comes over and stands with us very briefly but then wonders off by herself and says nothing to anyone.

There was one stage she was by herself and it waa just the two of us and I stayed and kept her company. She was making plenty of small talk with me then