Why does a girl try to make you jealous/want your attention if she rejected you and has no interest talking?

[Anonymous]

I've known my close girl mate for over a year and we had a lot in common, would spend days and nights chilling together, and do lots of things like cook, go on trips, go to festivals and clubbing together, I told her I had feelings for her and she rejected me and decided to cut off our friendship which is fair enough... After a few weeks of no contact, she started going out clubbing with other mates and would film it for her stories on insta knowing I would see it, I saw her dancing looking into the camera as if to say I'm having fun living my best life, and doing moves we used to do together, after I saw this one night I caved in and sent her a message telling her I miss our friendship and I wanna have fun times with her again, she saw the message but it let me on read.. A few weeks later she starts filming herself on nights out again dancing and posting it on insta, this time I won't reach out, but why does someone try to make you jealous or want your attention if they rejected you and have no interest talking?

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Before the rejection when we went out clubbing and stuff she never took vids or posted vids of her dancing, it's only after the rejection and some no contact time has passed has she started to film herself and add it to her socials, knowing her settings made it visible for me to see. So again my question is Why does a girl try to make you jealous/want your attention if she rejected you and has no interest talking?

[CasaNorba]

bro this bitch is toxic as fuck. not sure if making you jealous is her actual intention but if she is she is doing it because she thinks of you as nothing but a nice guy and gets off on the fact that she is making you jealous with other dudes that she perceive as more "alpha" than you.

if I was you I cut this bitch out of my life for good cause talking from experience these bitches aren't worth the burden. let her continue riding the cock carousel for now cause in a few years she will be hitting the wall and when she does she's probably gonna try to come back to you on her knees begging to take her back. but by this time she will look like shit and will probably have at least 2-3 kids with different losers and you my friend again do not deserve such a burden

[Asker]

That's a great answer thank you mate, the reason why I say jealous is cause she used to invite me out to nights out with her and never post such vids, but now purposely showing me, she's out enjoying life without me, if she was a decent friend at least hide me seeing that from her stories settings but nah and I wonder as she never posts public stories before, if it's just set to me who can see them, if so that's really spiteful, she's not the person I had feelings for , I won't click on her recent stories anymore, so I'll move on :)

[CasaNorba]

exactly! you're about to do the right thing brother!

cut her out of your life, dont watch her stories or follow her on social media anymore. watch her get pissed the fuck off once she realizes she lost her favorite. after that just work on yourself, start dating better women and watch her try to come back to you after that. but clearly you already know what to do when that time comes

[ZS007]

she might just be an attention seeker. If you were friends and still wanna be friends it's rude that she just ignores you without even explaining me. I get that it's awkward but still if you had so many good times would she toss you aside so easily just cause you liked her. Better to keep a distance. You deserve better friends and and true love.

[Asker]

You're only 19 but that's also a lush strong answer thank you :) you too