What to do when you love someone who hates hairy women, in fact you're not hairless?

[Anonymous]

he's will be my first. I aware that he doesn't like hairy women or maybe hate hairy women. and I started to hide the fact that I'm hairy. I was always waxing even tho my mom didn't allow me to do that. I don't understand why my mom doesn't let me waxing. I feel like I'm battling with my inner self.

waxing every few days are tiring... I had to spent my whole day for my own body.

he was always seduce me to sleep with him. but I keep turning him down. knowing that he hate hairy women, made me scared to sleep with him.

[HSalenko]

You're both adults, if I were you I'd come clean and broach the topic to him. I know it's scary, but if you want to go any further with him, have sex, maybe start a family, etc. then something has to give. He'll find out at some point anyway.

Talking about hair, guys of course vary. speaking for me I like it if my partner has pubic hair, some belly/navel hair is acceptable, and I'm indifferent to leg hair. I like nipple hair because it makes her more sensitive to foreplay, but I'm not a fan of armpit hair. A lot of guys would yell at me for wanting a sasquatch, some others would say what I described isn't hairy enough. If this particular guy is really worth it to you, then have a conversation about it with him. Relationships, especially with potential husbands are about trust and honesty. You need to know if you're worth each other's time sooner rather than later. Good luck!

[Asker]

what I know from him is, he doesn't want any single hair especially the private area 😔

[HSalenko]

Honestly you won't know until he knows. Yes, that might be what he says, but he may not mind it with you. Our significant others change us over time and they can have an effect on our preferences. Honestly I used to not like pubic hair either until I had sex for the first time and got some painful friction burns. Nowadays it's pretty much a requirement for me, lol.

Now I gotta drop the hard truth: he might not mind it with you, but if he does mind, then you need to consider if it's worth staying or not. I know you want to settle down, but you shouldn't have to compromise your comfort to make a guy happy. Over time, neither of you will be happy.

[Asker]

thanks for telling me everything 😊

[DOGU8585]

for me no problem but mostly guys dont like hair ı think, are you extremly hairy?

[Asker]

I'm not extremely hairy

[DOGU8585]

than no problem, its moreover kinda sexy for me :), especially with nice underwear combinations, do you wear thong?

[Asker]

sexy 😂😂😂🤣 seriously?

[DOGU8585]

ı mean the pubic hair, vaginal hair, not on legs or belly of course :) so you do not wear a thong?

[panamared1]

if his deciding factor is hair, what is his real worth, if he cannot accept you for you, he does not deserve you

[Asker]

😔 I'm 27, I don't want to find a new partner.. im tired to keep getting know people. I want to build a family. most people I know are married

[panamared1]

Your choice