Gave this girl my # but not sure i'll ever hear anything from her?

[Anonymous]

it was weird we didn't even talk most of this summer but suddenly the last couple weeks we've been talking at this bar.

anyways the other night i gave her my # , the context was there has been a picture taken on us there and its going to be posted to the bars facebook page expect i don't have facebook so will never see it , see does and will send it to me

at least thats what she said although i feel like the odds of a girl texting a guy from bar are way lower than a guy texting a girl. i do see her inperson at restaurant where she works and a couple bar nights left at that bar before summer is over and likely see her there but feel the odds of a text from her appearing on my phone are low

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i just got a text from her on my phone with the picture of us together

[ElementoP]

On my last day of highschool I left my number and a stupid little note on this girl's car who I never talked to the entire 4 years I was crushing on her. Needless to say, she never texted me

Your ploy may not work, but it could always be worse my friend.

Good for you going for it at least, but maybe next time save yourself the guess work and get her number instead

[Asker]

i did something like that in high school but it was in a girls yearbook i some how got a hold of but wasn't suppose to have, she got more annoyed and never liked me much

the # wasn't my idea it was her's , not sure why she'd want a photo taken of us together at the bar or why she suggested she'd send it to me

[Guy13]

Finally, someone on this site that is not afraid to Risk. Hope this pans out for you !!!

[Asker]

i didn't see it as a risk at the time , if she doesn't send anything i'll ask her about it when i see her in person

[Guy13]

I don't care what you see... She sees signs of a possible man. Even if she says no, she will respect you!

[Asker]

i agree she see's something in me worth the effort , still not sure if she'll text me or not , seems weird to think she even has my # , i don't have hers and not sure what i'd even send her if i did

[Guy13]

A formal invitatin that when she clicks it confetti flies across the screen to meet you at This Place at This Time on This Day. She can figure it out. CASUAL not fancy...

[Asker]

i just got a text on my cell from her with the picture , for real. now i don't know what to reply back

[Guy13]

What kind of picture Stud Muffin... if I get a visual to her then it is likely that she want be forgetting whether in phone or not. Looking at it on the table..."he will be thinking of me"!!!

[Asker]

its just a picture of me and her plus 1 of her girlfriend's at that bar , she's smiling as she leans into me sort of , i'm sort of smiling but look drunk

[Guy13]

Talking about a woman who is aching all over for a man. You’re the lucky guy…

[In_Trance]

Aren't you a little old for questions like this?

[Asker]

people in there 30's still give out there # to people they meet in public if you wonder

[In_Trance]

People in their 30s also know the failyre rate of this is 99%.

[Asker]

well yeah my expectations are low , i wasn't planning on giving her my # anyways it just sort of happened that night