Is it wrong to hate women for how they ignore you and insult you constantly?

[Unfortunateguy27]

I noticed myself resenting women especially pretty girls

[20thGreatRomances]

Perhaps being upset with them is a better word than to hate. I advise you to try and not hate on someone, it really takes a toll on your mind.

I was going through the same thing for a while at the beginning of this year. Just last month, I realized that it was not about me. Most of the women I was speaking to clearly did not know what they wanted. (Too many details to explain.) Point being, just be yourself and work on how you approach women. I know what I want and I will make my move when I see it versus setting expectations or taking it personal. It will just make your future relationship that much better.

[ElementoP]

Dude I hear you, I've been right where you are many times

You just have to learn to not take it personal

Women are extremely vulnerable and sensitive creatures with bounds of intense emotions. Whatever bullshit they pull probably has to do with the shit storm she's brewing up in her head that's probably not even about you

[20thGreatRomances]

Thanks for sharing this man. I been feeling this way too but just recently, I noticed that I shouldn't be taking it personal. However, I hear that OP, I know that it can be frustrating when it happens way too many times. Just keep your head up and continue to look. Don't expect anything back nor rush into anything and you'll be better off.

[ElementoP]

Absolutely man. 100%
The good news is it happens to all of us. Unless your name is Ryan Reynolds, but shit it probably happens to him too

[20thGreatRomances]

Lmao!

Bro, you just made me genuinely laugh. Thanks again buddy! 🤗

[ElementoP]

Lol, right on dude. No worries

[Msputiton]

Not normal.

There is something wrong with your approach.

It sounds more like setting a scapegoat of women being the problem instead of exploring what you're doing wrong.

[Unfortunateguy27]

I’ve never approached women, I know that I’m not valuable based on how the world treats me. Girls just make fun of me, use offensive language, laugh at me or just look the other way

[Msputiton]

There's your problem. You have no self worth.
People male and female can sense it, and the bad ones will use it against you.
Learn to love and appreciate yourself first

[Unfortunateguy27]

Self love comes from value and value comes from how others treat you. A object only has a cash value amount equal to what someone is willing to pay for it

[RedStiletto88]

Women don’t owe you anything , why you think you’re entitled to our attention is beyond me.

[Unfortunateguy27]

That’s your interpretation I don’t demand anything of women. Being a 28yr old virgin with no relationship or sexual experience has to ask himself why do women resent me and laugh at my existence.

[7Phoenix7]

Don't let a few bad apples spoil the whole bunch. There are good women...🤗

[Unfortunateguy27]

I’m sure seems to me after all these years and interactions that all the women I’ve encountered have treated me like dirt

[7Phoenix7]

You must be attracted to women who treat you bad. You keep going for the same type, if you know what I mean.

[Unfortunateguy27]

I have no relationship experience or sexual. I don’t approach so not sure how I’m going after the wrong ones when I’m not going at all

[7Phoenix7]

So how are women treating you bad?

[Unfortunateguy27]

Have you ever called a guy a faggot or made fun of a man’s face before with your friends or coworkers

[7Phoenix7]

I've never called a guy a faggot. And I don't befriend bullies. Don't let a group of bullies, men or women get to you like that. They themselves were probably not that cute and used you too better self esteem.

[Unfortunateguy27]

I’m sure

[ZS007]

maybe you developed some sort of trauma for what some women have done to you. If you think it's wrong and want to fix it. I think it is... Talk to a therapist.

[LazerBean]

If a lot of men were constantly ignoring me insulting me, I would assume it's because I'm really freaking annoying.

[Unfortunateguy27]

Quite possibly but I’m a mute who never talks so I suppose not communicating and being ugly is annoying

[LazerBean]

To be honest, people who have poor social skills can be quite creepy.

[Unfortunateguy27]

Very and then when you add all other factors of that person (me) I can see why

[Unfortunateguy27]

Funny growing up you’re treated like shit made fun off walked all over and ignored then as an adult people expect you to be normal or some shit as if they didn’t form you into the person you are today

[LazerBean]

I guess take that compliant up with your parents, since if that's the case then it's completely their fault.

[Unfortunateguy27]

Sorry mom and dad for not being attractive and reproducing another worthless ugly faggot in this world

[LazerBean]

*for not teaching their child basic social skills.

[Unfortunateguy27]

Children learn that as they socialize in school,

[LazerBean]

And as soon as your parents saw that you were turning into a creep they should have pulled you out and homeschooled you and retaught you proper social skills. So yeah they're still at fault.

[LazerBean]

And now we get to the real reason people ignore and insult you.

[Unfortunateguy27]

Because I insult back

[LazerBean]

*because you lash out at others for your parents failure to raise you properly.

[Unfortunateguy27]

Yet you’re so quick to judge and insult sorry didn’t realize I was speaking to God

[LazerBean]

Who insulted who first?

[Unfortunateguy27]

You did

[Unfortunateguy27]

I mean I could look at my comment as being non offensive

[LazerBean]

Which one, the one about me being a slant eyes chink? Are you saying that you did not at all mean that as an insult?

[Unfortunateguy27]

I didn’t feel anger or superiority from it so nope, and it’s only offensive if you were offended

[LazerBean]

That doesn't mean it wasn't an insult lol but do tell, if it wasn't to be a prick, then exactly what was your purpose for saying it? How did it contribute to the conversation?

[Avicenna]

You need to rethink how you approach women, and which ones. Talk to people who know you and get advice from them.

[ManOnFire]

The good news is that you are self-aware about your feelings and can admit them. The next step is to work through those feelings.

[GrapeApe98]

Yes dude, yes it is. Please calm down, and try to get that mindset deleted permanently. The last thing the world needs is another incel mass shooter.

[Unfortunateguy27]

Lmao a lot of people joke about me being a shooter but that has never crossed my mind

[Guy13]

Hate is bad... Women are sometimes mean and bad. I guess it is an even wash...

[WeeeISee]

I think women have every right to be hesitant towards men. But if there’s a group of girls being mean to you and you’ve been kind to them, find other people to be around. Sincerely, I mean this.

[FilmGuy93]

It's wrong to hate anyone, but I can understand why you would be upset.

[Anonymous]

Not logical. I've been hurt by women in the past, and it's just a reminder that some women can be just as bad as a man can be. Sone people are just assholes. Everyone is their own individual person.

[Opinion Owner]

I can assure you that you will never find a decent girl if you continue whining like this tho. I'm a guy and I wouldn't even want to be around you.

[Anonymous]

I have received far more bad behaviour from women in my life, Yet hate is a strong word. I don't hate them. It's just women can be as bad as men.

[hhadeshatesme]

loser mentality

[Unfortunateguy27]

If u say so you know best

[MzAsh]

How does hating women serve you?

[Unfortunateguy27]

I look at a women that I think feels superior to me and hate her

[MzAsh]

I get that but that doesn’t answer my question.

[TroyDT]

Just walk away

[mr4435669]

Nope.

[BarryLiverstone]

Quick answer yes