How to be desired by at least 1 woman?

[Anonymous]

A while ago this girl I like while still in a relationship admitted to having dreamed about me romanticly. She is single now and I admitted how ii feel cause she is allready looking around for a New boyfriend. She says I am Just a friend and she doesn't see me like that. Normally in this case I would break contact however her being the only person texting me makes that not an option. We been texting a lot for a few weeks when she dreamed about me it was less. I am trying to go back the lesser amount of texting to invoke a dream like that again or at least give myself time to deal with these feelings. After I told her the same night she snapped me a pic like she Just heard the best thing ever. A dude asked to sleep with her i never made her Smile like that and I kinda flirt with her all the time complimenting her looks but more her skills and brains. Somehow it made her dream about me when she was taken and makes less then someone that Just wants her for her looks.

She is the only girl that wants to talk to me these days, If i can't make her mine or. get rid of my feelings i need to get rid of my only friend wich isn't an option. So. anyone have to tips to be more desireable so i can unlock the feelings she had for me. when she was too young or to able to find someone else?

[BlueScorpio]

"She says I am Just a friend and she doesn't see me like that."

Thats your sign to leave it alone, I think you need to move on. She already said she likes you as a friend only and waiting or hoping she will change her mind about you is wasting your time. She loves your company and attention and that's probably as far as it goes for her. If you're not willing to cut the friendship then you're just going to have accept being in the friendzone and possibly deal with her getting a new boyfriend. The choice is yours to make. I lije to hope I'm wrong that something does blossom between you but at the same time I don't want you waiting forever one girl.

To settle thus, you need to make your feelings known to her and what your intentions are and you need to do this face to face. You need to be clear about it, Tell her you like more than friend and would like to become her boyfriend. If she tells you AGAIN That your are just her friend and friend only then you know where your relationship officially stands.

[Asker]

She allready knows my feelings,

yesterday I decided too ignore her until she realises she treats me like im her boyfriend without the fun of actually being the boyfriend. the way we talk or until I forget her. I am done with making my feelings , wants and needs very clear Just to get the answer i am Just a friend when guys that only want sex do get a chance.

She didn't even think about how i would feel when she decided to show me her dating profile for approval she Just did

[BlueScorpio]

Okay then. You already got an answer. She knows your feelings but isn't interested in you like that. At this point you need to accept it and move on and just be okay with being a friend only.

[Asker]

Yeah im not okay with that , can't keep accepting that for an answer. Not every girl i meet can see me as Just a friend at least one should have feelings

[Guy13]

Have a good career that generates enough income to be seen as a family provider and shitload will come out of nowhere.

[Asker]

So i have to performance a miracle first to have women run after my wallet . No thank you I am able to provide a good life for a woman tho

[Guy13]

IT SUCKS ... but it is her perception that matter and not ours. This is Rule 1 and many people to do not like to deal with it. One has to maximize their situation or they end up mostly bitter and without. I have a bud who does that who I worked for at Lowes. He is about to retire there at Night in Warehouse Operations and has been working as Manager of Bojangles too. 1600-2000 week is pretty good and his wife... it's nice when I'm over for cookout... she's got those loving eyes !!.