What makes a woman desirable for a relationship?

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Miristheiss · Accepted Answer

Shares my faith.

Character, class, relationship oriented (a girl who wants to fall in love and be with one guy and have a family vs. a girl who wants to be wild, go out clubbing and drinking and getting tattoos and piercings, dressing half naked in revealing clothes who is obsessed with social media and posting sexy pics and getting a bunch of male followers, going on wild girls trips and girls nights out... all drinking, sexy clothes at clubs where she is interacting with guys all night vs. really being "with" friends)

Is very feminine, loyal, devoted, takes marriage seriously (not divorcing at the moment grown up life gets boring), has good friends (not single party girls trying to get her to go clubbing every weekend), handles conflict well and is a good communicator (she doesn't bottle stuff up being passive aggressive or lashing out and punishing her mate if she isn't getting her way or feels hurt, doesn't yell, curse and be disrespectful). She tells her guy what she wants, what she feels, she tells him calmly if she feels hurt and what her expectation are.

She has good boundaries, her family/relationships are more important than a job and she doesn't take actions that stress the relationship in order to get ahead for some work (working more hours, strange shifts, traveling from the family for work).

She isn't loose sexually and was never loose in the past, never was a stripper or OF girl, isn't easy. If she was "wild" in the past but now wants me to be the sucker and settle down with her, no way. Bye-bye. Keep on clubbing hootchie mama. You are not wife material. I can't be with someone I find disgusting.

I found mine. We have two kids.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I like a girl who:

1. Has respect for herself, isn’t out there showing off her body for attention

2. Doesn’t do only fans or some sort of sexual thing trying to monetize it. That includes selling lingerie pics. While she may not be engaging in the act of sex, the point behind pics like that is to sexualize herself to get men to want to lust over her to pay for these pics.

3. She’s not loud, obnoxious, look at me look at me type of girl

4. Low profile on social media, maybe even no profile at all

5. Isn’t a drunk

6. Doesn’t go out w her girlfriends on weekends to get drunk or girls’ trips.

6. Wants a family, who also has her family in tact as well

7. Isn’t argumentative. Sure we may have disagreements but there’s some women who just like to argue, women who are masculine are a big turnoff.

8. She’s sweet, cute, nice, helpful, thankful, considerate.

9. My mom absolutely loves her cause she likes to be around my mom. Learning things from my mom, likes to help cook or do things w my mom, maybe even w my sisters.

10. She’s curvy

11. She doesn’t have a high body count

DishLady · Accepted Answer

A good personality, perhaps a little experience or understanding of their guy.

At3mis24 · Accepted Answer

I hate when men say "very feminine"... That's harsh!!

K4keeps · Answer

@miristheiss I wasn’t shaming anyone it was simply Molly given back respectfully is all. Why talk shit about other woman that go clubbing, or wear certain clothes, and a girl who loves your mother like that seemed obsessive and actually played a fantasy role in the brain of the 2 of them interacting with each other sexually. And this whole shit with masculine or feminine is just simply the most stupidest shit ever cause if a man can’t help but to feel some type way that his woman can rebuild a 4barrel carb instead of bragging she can do that shit well then the man seems immature and insecure with himself. Old lady lmao that right there shows how immature you are. You have to have the say the power and lord knows you can’t have a woman show you up on anything cause you would feel embarrassed as hell so you go for the the girls that needs you to do everything for them and that’s fine cause that’s what you like. But bashing woman who go out with her friends and has a good time and wears what she wants when she wants and doesn’t play by your rules or give you how you want things only is bs and you had an publicly left your opinion and I had an opinion about pretty much you being a shit head on other woman that don’t do as their told. So that’s how I took your opinion. It also seems you need a woman to throw your ass on the bed and have her way and get a little ruff. It’s like your hating on things that you actually would like but aren’t man enough to admit it. I truly wasn’t coming at you just the fact you shitting on other woman and how they may party or mingle on a night out with the girls and have fun and if any woman wants to sleep with 2 dudes in one night “with respect for herself, meaning don’t step on another woman knowingly” that’s her business and shouldn’t be judged just like men aren’t about shit like that and men aren’t called names either. Boundaries are good and should be set but barking demands and only your needs met is a man with little and shitting on other woman that aren’t even in you life sounds like jealousy cause you don’t have that. Opinions are like assholes everyone has one 😁.

Anonymous · Answer

her self-respect is greater than her self-love

that means eating healthy and staying fit, not gorging on junk food because she loves it

that means keeping her body count as low as possible, not giving it out to guys who use her for sex and then expect some other guy to take care of her

that means standing up for principles and values, not cast them aside when the going gets tough

that means wanting to learn and understand all points of view, not be stuck in an echo chamber of her worst thoughts

that means wanting to be selfless and start a family, not be selfish and leech off society to fund her single and promiscuous lifestyle

HawkPerception · Answer

It's different for every guy. For me, I just look for compatibility. For me compatibility is just how similar you are. Like similar views, interests, sense of humor, goals in life (where you want to be in 20 years), communication style (like love languages), sexual compatibility, physical attraction, etc.

If she checks off on all of that, that girl is meant for me.

Lionman95 · Answer

Speaking for myself if she values and morals. A woman that doesn't need attention from other people all the time.
If she is a Christian.
If she has a passion and goals for her life and for a relationship. I hate it when people see relationship as an end goal.

Anonymous · Answer

Do real women and real girls even exist nowadays? All i've crossed paths with are hoes, manipulators, liars, ungrateful, I don't think genuine girls even exist and ill just assume she's talking to 50 other guys for fun... no thanks, this is the social media, toxic era.

DextroShade · Answer

Here's the list: Fit Feminine Friendly Cooperative  Submissive Childless  Not a hoe Not a feminist  No tattoos/piercings  Younger than the man

77five · Answer

I have no idea. I've head men tell me im hot, pretty, sweet, nice and fun….. but they still had no interest in me. And they initiated our contact too so i have no idea

RebelinSteel · Answer

They are compatible with me, we get on and share similar thoughts and views to me. That there is an emotional connection as well as physical.

DarkWinterNights · Answer

If she is: •Kind Hearted •Has a happy bubbly personality •Good with kids •Takes care of herself •Shares similar beliefs/religion/politics

whistlingwh0res · Answer

Men look for either sexy girl or rich girl. I heard that they explore sexuality from their early age. So they are not a fool.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

Our looks can get him looking, but personality is what reels him in. So if you understand him and get along well, you are pretty much there.

mattthefatbat · Answer

When she pushes me on the bed and makes me watch a movie with her while we hold hands

Kelley1 · Answer

She is a traditional woman like the women of 1950s.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Speaking for myself. She's a christian. She's smart. She's honest. She's trustworthy. Doesn't abuse drugs or alcohol.

bobby_bush_eater · Answer

Aside from looks, funny, caring, wants marriage, wants children, wants to home school.  That's all I got.

Dongie · Answer

She's sweet as pie and curvaceous with her pretty eyes and face. A lady. Oh, and a whore in the sack.

Anonymous · Answer

Feminine, godly woman, with zero past or present casual sex or hookups. What  Miristheiss said pretty much...

Kit_Kat88 · Answer

Kindness, attractiveness, similar relationship goals, and supportive

OtterMan68 · Answer

shared beliefs and interests, intellectual curiosity, kindness

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

She has respect for herself, has good values/morals, cares about her physical appearance , and treats others with kindness

Counterclocking · Answer

Always has long hair, wears dresses/skirts, pantyhose, and high heels.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Being fun and loyal, and since I am shallow in this area, not obese.

Anonymous · Answer

Her personality, character and life goals, and her attitudes toward men and relationships..

sheikalana · Answer

She's not promiscuous.

sheenagwapa · Answer

i think guys like women to be so feminine

jshm2 · Answer

Has self respect and class.

laly520 · Answer

to be mature, loyal n capable of loving

jahaims · Answer

She has the same morals, values and goals.

SunnyRS · Answer

For me that would be her confidence.

handsomelad70 · Answer

Beauty, personality, body.

thisAppIsGarbage · Answer

Sweat, submissive, nurturing, loves sucking dick.

dolemite58 · Answer

Not being a hoe is a good start lol

Whitedog1 · Answer

Ability to give and receive love💕

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