What makes a woman desirable?

[Anonymous]

I've always heard my friends say things like "that girl is my dreamed girl" or "she's a princess" or "I would do anything to be with a girl like her"... this things led me to this question 🤔: what makes a woman so desirable? (I understand opinions and preferences vary among men, yet I would like to know what may be those things that captivate a man & that leads a man to say this/similar things about the girl they like)

Feel free to share your opinion. Thank you 😊

[MasterHiruki]

I consider how much i desire a woman as the sum of her total package. If i like what i see then i will get to know you. If i get to know you then i will decide if i want you in my life and whether or not its a one night stand, a quick fling/short term or if i see a long term relationship out of it. If i find you attractive but i don't want to date you for very long then i will avoid any deep or meaningful conversations since it sends the wrong message. So if i want to keep you around as a female friend to because i like you non romantically i will still get to know you but i won't venture too deep. It probably varies from guy to guy but thats how i would Evaluate.

Some desirable traits outside of there physical beauty would be:

- Honesty/Trust - i need to be able to trust her everyone lies but they shouldn't to the one they dating.

- Social intellgence - How well do they get along with others. If they are on there best behavior with you but don't get along with your friends or family and they make no attempt to do so or they make things difficult with how they act in general. I am not going to want them around.

- Independence - A girl who can operate on there own who wants but dosn't need anyone they live there own life. So i add value to her life and her with mine. She dosn't cling to me or need me around all the time.

There are just a few traits a woman would need to be desirable.

[Bananaman177]

If she's fun and happy and friendly and funny and smart and she believes in true love and being loyal and honest and sticking with you through good times AND bad, she's in the top 1% of desirable females.

Men's standards are lower than women's:
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So as a woman, the bar is relatively low for you, you don't have to be that great. Most of your competition is shallow, selfish, uninteresting, and entitled, with a mean-streak a mile wide and yet they want everybody to always be nice to them or else they turn into a turbobitch. And they couldn't be loyal to one man if their life depended on it because they think it's always the man's job to make and keep them happy 24/7. So if you're just better than THAT, you can really catapult yourself to the upper echelons of female desirablity.

[Kgbmafia]

It can have a lot of factors. Something maybe as simple as her looks that guys find attractive or maybe her stance in life eg a very independant working woman or it could even be her hobbies that relate to the specific guy. I dont think there is one main aspect that is common maybe aside from looks but beauty is in the eye of the beholder so a desirable woman all comes down to what individual guys like.

[JuicyBrain]

Well, it's a woman that fits better than most the particular model of the perfect woman a given man has. This particular model, as you know, is different for each men. It's a mix of qualities. They can be about her physical aspect and/or her personality. This model can be very precise or fuzzy. I would say that in my case as time passes by, it went from precise to fuzzy. I found that, nowadays, I am much less interested about how she looks and much more about who she is. I am much more open now than I used to be and what I am looking for is someone agreeable who doesn't like drama and wants to experiment life with me. So it went from precise to fuzzy.

[Browneye57]

Uh, there is no 'ONE'. Girls have features and traits that a guy likes or doesn't. Every single one is gonna be different. The idea of dating is to determine whether it's a match or not. Also called discernment.
You cannot negotiate desire or attraction. It's either there or it isn't. And you can't change what you are - what you are is what you are. Simply strive to be the best YOU can be, and you'll find someone that appreciates that and is worth investing your time and sharing your life with.
So, what exactly do YOU bring to a relationship? What value do you present? Are someone worth investing in? What have you done to be successful? Desirable?

[AdamThomas]

First off, good looks obviously. In shape, neither overweight nor underweight, nice hair (most men prefer long hair, not short hair), feminine appearance, nice clothes (classy, not too slutty).

Personalitywise, a nice, genuine, caring person with a good sense of humour. Intelligence is attractive too.

Basically, a big emphasis on femininity and class.

[D1991F]

Seeing a random girl and considering her desirable must mean she is gorgeous and it has nothing to do with her actually personality.

[clampfan101]

The biggest "want to marry" desires, or just plain attractiveness? (I'm not too picky in looks for dating, so there's tons of things I find physically attractive that aren't requirements for choosing a girlfriend.)

[Lithium65]

Even though a girl can be hot, what makes them more so and desirable (outside of sexual attraction) is not being seen as crazy (or to use the medical term "cray cray"), but being rational, sweet, and outgoing.

[Anonymous]

all women are heartless, selfish backstabbers... so they r all desirable but only upto the moment they try to destroy your life

[ColinHarvey]

Not cunting around and bitching. If you're attractive but have a shitty personality, we will notice.

Be hot, and be reasonable.

[amphet11]

Being decent looking, that's all! dating is super easy for women compared to men.

[Glen68]

it's all about personality for me but I'm physically attracted to big butts

[Anonymous]

NO mind games.

Act sexual around good guys not stupid guys including in the same social circle.

Basically initiate texts and be happy.

[Opinion Owner]

Not doing this:

The attractive guy friend - someone funny, exciting and hot.
The douche guy friend - objectifies women, less good looking, not sweet

Yet she would probably act innocent to the first guy even though she likes him more and be sexual/slutty pose like a cheerleader round the 2nd guy

[disgustingweebtrash]

When a woman breathes it just makes me weak at the knees :DDDDDDDDDD

[UsernameCreated]

I'd say, every single thing she could possibly do.

[OfDeath]

A hot body is a good start.

[Anonymous]

big boobs, a slim waist and a big ass.

[Anonymous]

Intelligence and generosity.

[cupidkisses]

being well groomed
having a good smile

[Blitzkrieger]

Personality above all else.