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What makes women attractive to men? Their ability to create and sustain a good carrier of our genes. That is based on several factors:
Broad hips, so the head can 'easily' (insofar as the 'miracle of childbirth' is ever easy) leave the vagina
Big boobs, these signify the presence of female sex hormones, as well as the woman being well-fed herself, meaning that she can probably sustain a second human being with it as well.
Anything that you do not have. This means ANYTHING. From natural smell, to voice, to the curvature of the bottom of her feet. Differences in these visible aspects often mean differences in invisible aspects as well. The most important invisible aspect being the immune system. A child born from people with a very different immune system are often immune to many different types of diseases. If there is much overlap, not many diseases can be covered.
I wonder the same thing about men for women. Men are just so not attractive. I also feel women get cheated. With women, no matter where we look we have something amazing to look at: face, breasts, vagina (or ass if that is your thing). But women just get to look at a penis and that is blah.
When I think of a woman, aside from the obvious parts that are amazing, I think of
1) how soft they are. To hold her in my arms is amazing.
2) looks in general. Feminine is a huge turn on. I esp love things like pony tails and things in her hair (ribbons, scrunchies, etc)
3) The nurturing aspect women have. Women are just the backbone of the family. They make everyone feel loved.
I notice that when I'm feeling comfortable or confident i attract guys more but the type varies. Obviously I get more laid back go with the flow when comfortable and when confident I get the bold aggressive types.
If I'm feeling insecure guys avoid me since I give off that leave me alone vibe. If I do attract a guy isn't usually one that likes to play mind games or belittle me.
In terms of how I dress it doesn't matter. I've attracted unattractive men when I was dressed to the nines while when I looked plain and simple got an attractive guy trying to talk to me. Vise versa too but I feel like when I'm dressed to the nines guys just stare and look but won't talk except for those elderly men still trying to holla
Most guys notice and care about looks first and foremost. Personality does matter a bit, but only later. Men don't usually fall for someone after getting to know her personality unless their was physical attraction to begin with. They're more likely to fall OUT of "love"/lust with a hot girl after discovering she's a terrible person. And as far as personality goes, basically just seeming happy and carefree all the time and stroking his ego is plenty of most guys. It's kind of sad, but that's just how it is. Some guys are less shallow than others and really do want a woman who is more complex than that, though.
I've asked my guy this before and he said that my face/physical features caught his eye first... and that, plus my personality (i. e. common interests, the way we get along very well, etc.) made it one complete package.
He said, "If you were just hot but have nothing else going on, we wouldn't have gone anywhere either."
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personally I look for traits in how they look, for instance if they're a bit of a tomboy that tells me they might be a tomboy personality wise too, if they have dreadlocks or body hair that tells me they're a bit of a wild/free spirit with confidence, if they have a fit and toned body that tells me they're active, all attractive personality traits, if those traits turn out to be how they actually are, not just false signals then I'd hopefully fall in love with them and stay.
like my ideal partner is someone that's a best mate essentially, but also someone that likes being wild and free, chilling out in nature and stuff
I've been physically drawn to a girl, got to now here for about 2 years now, but no attraction at all. There's no spark if you know what I mean. She's beautiful, but we can't connect on that level. So physical attraction always reels guys in, but its the emotional attraction that determines if we stay. I emotionally adhere to a girl is she is down to earth, shows genuine interest to be with me, and has some ambition in her personality. Everyone's personality is unique, so to see her being herself, and not trying to impersonate a style or act a certain way for acceptance, is good. Again just being genuine, smart enough to know what to say, but not spilling your heart out to everyone. Just my personal opinion
like anyother animal physical attraction comes first. if she's not pretty then i won't really fall for her. however, though tv may not show it, a womans personality can make or break the attraction.
an absolutely gorgeous snob can't get much more than dick from me.
but if she's pretty, compassionate and caring then god save me cause a brothas whipped.
I find this line of questioning interesting for a 33yo. You should have this stuff figured out by now.
"Does physical attraction happen first for men or can men often fall for someone once they get to know their personality better?"
Yes, that's how it works. Women connect emotionally. Guys connect physically. Attraction is what gets the ball rolling.
Men are more interested in what you'll DO for them. How much you desire, respect, and adore them.
What exactly do you bring to a relationship that would be considered high-value? When the NRE wears off there HAS to be something there. A high-value guy will be expecting it. And not, it's not the golden-vagina.
There's a message, usually non-verbal, that one senses first. It's more than a physical attraction. It's an emotional affinity.
Usually you aren't consciously aware you've fallen for someone, right away... you realize it when you start to miss them when you don't see them at the usual times and places.
A girl that takes care of herlself, both physically and emotionally. A girl that is friendly and tries to be a good person. A girl that has morals similar to mine and respects herself. A clean girl is very attractige to me. A 10/10 (looks) would be a 5 if she slept around or had sex with a lot of men and did slutty things.
Just the girl who loves herself as she is rather than thinking about others.
This is very general, but for me, I first notice her looks, of course. I prefer, fit/thin pretty girls (big surprise). But, if she has a stuck-up, dumb, or negative demeanor, it kills the attraction. I have to actually like the person as well as their looks.
You've no idea how beautiful a woman is to a man. You can look at other women and think she pretty but that's only the start. A man feels it through his stomach and his body. A woman's smile, if it's pretty can stop a mans heart
i love a girl with a fashion sense, a style of her own, a girl with attitude, a girl who isn't afraid to express herself and be her true self
a girl who is open to other things
well ofcourse physical attraction happens, the looks are always important the way she looks, how she looks but i think that creates infatuation
personality is what makes one go head over heels, like really fall in love
I think regardless of gender, I think it's the same "process" for everyone. Yes we tend to be more visual when it comes to initial attraction, but that's it. All the other things that makes someone attracted to someone else or not come into play still afterwards.
I'd say for most guys the order in which we feel attraction goes pants, heart, head. For most girls it'll be the opposite order.
Aside from physical chemistry The ability to simulate one another's mind, to emotionally connect.
This involves lovers to be so into each other, it can cause the clothes to fall to the floor.
Personality. Then appearance. [Hair, face, smile, eyes]
I used to go only by physical features, but now its more about personality and character lol, although I still check out the physical features too
Of course first comes physical, but it happen to me many times getting interest after I know her. It counts a lot actually.
PS: And it happen to me lost interest on beautiful girls as well after I know her
playful, happy soul, constant smile, zero drama. As far as physical attraction goes as long as she still got most of her teeth, boobs and her belly fat is not hanging down to her knees I'd be happy.
If you are asking me i am simply hetero-sexual and by default attracted to women. Being a (good) woman is almost all you need to be for me.
But women have some kind of magic in them, that charms me really intense 😍😍😍
I think they find the general attitude of the girl attractive or not. Because even if they like her looks, if they hate her personality they will probably end up not liking her anymore.
I look for that physical attraction, coupled with their overall vibe. If I can sense that their a cool person, I become attracted to them. The physical attraction does have to be there though.
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