She wouldn't do a drink with me at bar but got annoyed when I did one with another girl?

[Anonymous]

its like you had your chance and didn't go for it , so i ended up having a drink with someone else instead. but she seemed upset and didn't seem to take it that well

[AssholeNumberOne]

You did nothing wrong. She's just a spoiled girl.

[SushiSxnpai]

Depends. Are you two together or not?

[Asker]

no but we spent a lot of time together this summer , he had worked as a server at our local pub , i had talked to her there quiet a bit but didn't know her at all until may of this year.
had never seen her at that bar before , still surprised she wouldn't do a shot with me

[SushiSxnpai]

Ah, I see. She probably has feelings for you and doesn’t want to admit it, probably leading to jealousy.

[Asker]

yes she was jealous i also spent a lot of time talking to another girl from her work who was also a server there. she hasn't even offered me her # or a way to reach her outside the pub and she's going away to school soon

[maximumpower]

Too bad, too sad.
More fish in the sea.

[Asker]

turned out to be more interested in the girl i ended up doing drink with anyways and she was new and totally unexpected

but feel bad i annoyed the other girl

[maximumpower]

No need to feel bad.
Similar thing happened to me when a mutual friend hooked me up with an NFL cheerleader.
She looked great but her friend was quite a bit more fun and engaging.

[Asker]

there both good looking ( blonde ) , never really talked much to the girl i actually did a drink with though , it happened kind of quickly at the bar we did a shot of tequila