She asked me to do a shot with her at bar for no particular reason?

[Anonymous]

we do know each other but we weren't hanging out , we hadn't even talked last night until she asked. i had been sitting at the bar by myself and she was with some friends.

she just like randomly asked and i came over and we did the shot together.

but its weird i had seen her at the gym about a week ago and she didn't even say hi or anything , she also has a boyfriend and know that he wouldn't of been ok with this as one time last summer he followed me around the bar and came up to my table to harass me cause i had talked to her the night before , he's a real douche

we have talked at the pub before but never did shots , i did do a shot with one of her close girlfriend's last year so maybe thats where she got the idea? if she knew i was willing to do drinks with her friend than i'd be ok with doing one with her? or she was jealous i did drinks with the friend and wanted to see if i'd do one with her?

[random_girl95]

I think that her having a boyfriend complicates things. Her behavior seems flirty to me but you mentioned her boyfriend approached you once cause he thought something was going on between you two. My suggestion is just keep your distance of that woman, as you may get in trouble eventually without actually doing something.

[ShadowMonarch]

I agree

[Asker]

we seem to get along fairly well , she works as a server there but not working last night. i also know some of her girlfriend's fairly well

but she gets to decide who she wants to be with not him , he seems like the type who'd be just as happy dating someone else

but i agree its possible she causes issues even if i'm not trying to really do anything with her , i said hi to her at gym once cause she had said i ignored her another time but she barely talked to me that day , her behaviour off and i never would of asked her to do a shot at the bar especially when her friends around , its likely the boyfriend will find out she did this

[random_girl95]

Better just stop bothering yourself with her.

[ShadowMonarch]

There's something else to this matter...
People dont tend to care about things that have happened a year ago... unless they think about you from time to time

[Asker]

i've seen a lot of her the last 2 summers , i do think about her from time to time , never put any though into her or if she's the same way

perhaps there's some issue here , she acted really weird last summer when i tried to date another girl who worked at that restaurant , she just acted so weird , i wondered if she though it was inapproiate as the girl younger than me but maybe she was jealous

[ShadowMonarch]

All of this matter points that she likes you... but the boyfriend part is hard to understand...
I think you should just see things from a distance and see what happens...

Just remain neutral for the time being

[Asker]

the girls who work at that restaurant always seem to have boyfriend's but some still seem to like spending time with me. i agree its hard to understand why she's with him if she likes me. perhaps he has more money , she could have more intense sexual needs that i realised and he has the bod she craves , i saw her at the gym and she was really getting into it her work out , maybe she just doesn't want to be single , some people just don't like breaking up it doesn't make a lot of sense

[ShadowMonarch]

For the time being don't do anything and see what happens.. you can't say anything for sure