it happened last night at this bar downtown i never really ever go to but she was there with her friends. i had meet both of them through there work and tried to date her friend last year but it didn't work out as i had hoped.
the girl i did the shot with is her best friend but the other girl wasn't with her last night , she like said hi and so i asked if she wanted to do a shot and she said yes but didn't know what drink she wanted.
i really liked it , was really hot that we did this together , i had wanted to do a shot with her but never managed to do one until last night
do you think the other girl will even care that we did this or has she long since moved on? we haven't even spoke for some time
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It's difficult to know exactly how the other girl will react to you doing a shot with her best friend, as everyone's feelings and opinions are different. However, if it has been some time since you last spoke and there were no unresolved issues or drama between you, it's possible that she may not care or even be aware of the situation.
It's important to remember that just because you enjoyed doing a shot with her best friend doesn't necessarily mean that there are any romantic feelings or intentions there. It's possible to have a fun and enjoyable social interaction without it leading to anything more.
If you're concerned about how the other girl may feel or want to clear the air, it may be helpful to reach out to her directly and have an honest conversation about your intentions and feelings. However, it's important to approach the conversation with respect and sensitivity, and not assume or pressure her into anything she's not comfortable with.
i'm not sure why we haven't spoke for the last 8 months , she's never said why , she wasn't at the bar so may not be aware but likely will find out eventually. i had done shots with her at the bar when we were still friends last summer
If you are interested in reconnecting with the other girl, it may be helpful to reach out to her and express your desire to reconnect and understand any issues that may have caused the distance between you.
It's important to approach the conversation with sensitivity and respect, and to prioritize her feelings and well-being. If she is not interested in reconnecting or is uncomfortable with the situation, it's important to respect her boundaries and to focus on building positive and respectful relationships with others.
Remember that communication, honesty, and respect are key components of any healthy relationship, and that it's important to prioritize your own emotional well-being and to be with people who value and respect you for who you are.
Wtf. Buddy, was that your very first drink ever? Cause it’s seriously not that big a deal to do shots with people. If I had a shot with a rando at the end of the bar, I’m not destined to be life partners and travel the galaxy together.
It’s a single drink. At a bar. Ask her out, go on a full date, get to know her before signing up for joint bank accounts, lol
i know this girl really well , she was a bartender at my local pub for a couple years and still works there , this shot occured at a nightclub in another city as she's at school for nursing , so i saw her there with some girlfriend's. it was my first shot at that nightclub , done shots at other bars obviously but never there
Why is it a big deal that you consumed a shot of hard liquor at the same time?
i don't know but she even made a video of it on her cell phone , she works at a pub in our hometown and we've never even did a shot together there so it was different than normal
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