„It’s about what you’re comfortable with“?

[malwins]

I fucking hate when Sb says this

öike after preggers I was little bit insecure about my weight and I have a person saying that

like please we know damn well how a Baddie fucking looks like why they lying to me

Updates

+1 y

It costs the same amount to give me fitness advice
As to make me feel faux well about myself

[Guardian45]

I think its common knowledge and natural that most women after pregnancy are not at their ideal weight, nor are they happy about it. Channel that to return fitness.
NO ONE wants to tell you you're a fat pig, get off your arse, and go to the gym! THAT'S for you to tell yourself!

[Guardian45]

Congratulations, by the way!

[Guardian45]

Thank you for MHG!

[Guy13]

I like your attitude. It is the same price to be supportive but truthful as it is to be a SOB...

[malwins]

They should at least admit that it has changed

[Guy13]

Exactly. They "messed up" and are not strong enough to admit ti.

[bowenw]

If people say rude things to you, you don't need them as friends. Support and empathy are best.

[TallAnon]

I quite honestly have no idea what you are talking about.

[malwins]

I lost my body after pregnancy and I had people saying like oh it’s the same bla bla
Like no it’s fucking completely different

[malwins]

And telling me that it’s about what I feel good with.. ummm nope!

[TallAnon]

Right, so you're mad that people try to make you feel comfortable with your body?

[malwins]

Why do I need to be comfortable? I need to be bad asf not comfortable

[TallAnon]

Sorry, why exactly are you required to be "bad asf"?

[malwins]

Seriously?

[TallAnon]

Yeah, why do you need to be that?