How does a “nice guy” turn into someone that can actually be respected?

[Anonymous]

Hello, I believe most girls I know perceive me as a “nice guy”. I believe it’s because of my previous interactions with them.

I don’t consider myself to be a nice guy and neither do I want to be, I am just trying to gain respect and connections.

I am aware that it is hard to rebuild your image in the eyes of other people, but I’m looking for particular things to do and say in order to achieve my goal

What I already did is gaining muscle, going to more parties, and creating a social media account where I can post interesting things I do.

Any help is greatly appreciated

(I apologize for my English, I’m not a native speaker)

[Iron_Man]

Why don’t you play sports women like that and meet some good girls and just talk to them straight from the heart and you can show them how good of a guy you are. Take them to church do the right things

[Asker]

I’ve tried soccer, martial arts, and badminton. But none were great experiences. Do you have any recommendations?

[Iron_Man]

Boxing

[Guy13]

Girls like nice guys with vision. Do you have vision?

[Guy13]

Girls at your age are looking for mature men. 18-27 are dating guys 10-20 years older seeking that vision. What do those guys have that you do not? Like house, existing family (most the time) etc. List some things to add to those two above.

[Asker]

sorry, what exactly do you mean by vision

[Guy13]

I should have used Plan... my bad !!

[Asker]

Oh, yeah. I do have plans, that I’m actively acting towards. But it’s still a long time til I get there, and I’m still far from owning my own house.

[Guy13]

How old are you?

[Avicenna]

Are you pushed around by others? If not, then you don’t need to change anything

[Asker]

not really, I don’t think I’m pushed around by others.

[dustybiker]

Respect is earned.

[Asker]

Yes, I agree. By the question I was implying that nice guys don’t really get respect, and so I don’t want to be perceived as a nice guy.

[dustybiker]

You still have to earn the type of respect you are craving. Part of that process is finding out how to do that.

[boobliker]

easy piss him off somehow...