Why can't women just be direct, and why is it socially acceptable for them not to be?

[Deserter]

Say what you mean ffs

[kylee2437]

If someone isn’t direct with you, it’s because they don’t want anything to do with you. That’s a big life lesson I had to learn. If you feel indirect energy, it’s because they don’t want to be.

[Deserter]

No, women are known to not be direct, they like dropping little hints

[kylee2437]

And men are like that as well. A woman that is sure of what she wants with you isn’t going to play those games

[Deserter]

They do, all my exes did. Men are direct and honest

[kylee2437]

If men were direct and honest, I wouldn’t have been cheated on in all of my relationships I’ve been in lol

[Deserter]

Cheating is clearly different

[kylee2437]

No it isn’t lol it’s literally someone beating around the bush of the fact that they don’t want to be with someone. Not sure why you are trying to make this gender based when it’s not.

[Deserter]

You are a liar, if that was the case I never would have been able to date those girls, they wanted it

[kylee2437]

You aren’t making any sense lol carry on with your stupid mindset. It’s the people that lack accountability that complain about the dating pool the most

[Deserter]

But they were my gfs you idiot...

[kylee2437]

And I had guys that wanted to date me but cheated on me because of lack of communication / transparency. Blaming genders for certain things is lack of accountability. It makes me wonder, are you even direct and honest?

[Deserter]

No it isn't, genders are different, doofus. Nobody says "I'm gonna cheat on you" it's meant to be a secret

[kylee2437]

Genders are different to a certain extent, but being indirect is not an assigned characteristic at birth. And of course cheating is supposed to be kept in “silent” but a direct person breaks up with someone they don’t want to be with.

[Deserter]

If they broke up with you it wouldn't be cheating... they wanted to stay with you but also have fun with someone else.

Wmen are known to be indirect

[kylee2437]

No that’s false, because if they wanted to stay with me, they wouldn’t have cheated in the first place.

And saying “women are indirect” like a whiney kid doesn’t change the fact that an opinion isn’t a fact lol

[Deserter]

Not true, cheating is a moment of weakness.

No, it's the truth, everyone knows it

[kylee2437]

So you are justifying cheating, but you are mad that women aren’t direct and want nothing to do with you? Lmao it’s the audacity

[Deserter]

I'm not justifying cheating you brainlet, but why would someone tell you they're cheating?

Nothing to do with me? Then why were they my gfs?

This is how women are, no accountability, just insults

[kylee2437]

It’s my points being made that are going right over your head. A direct person doesn’t cheat, they do what they need to do (break up with someone) to avoid indirectness and dishonesty

And if you weren’t having trouble with directness and people not wanting you, you wouldn’t have posted this. Ironically you don’t seem too direct of a person yourself

[Deserter]

Not if they intend to stay with you.

Then why did they date me you dipshit? You straight up deny the facts cause my criticisms of women hurt your fee fees

[kylee2437]

If they cheat on me, then they don’t have intent to stay with me because I don’t accept that behavior, that’s where the point is going over your head.

And your opinions of how women work aren’t facts when you can’t scientifically prove that women are only that way

[Deserter]

You won't know if they don't end up telling you, smart one

It is facts, it's a result of low testosterone

[kylee2437]

Uhhh I found out my exes were cheating on me all from not them personally

And it’s like arguing with a brick wall 🤦🏻‍♀️ not every guy has the same level of Test either.

[Deserter]

Ok, and? The intent of cheating is not to tell

Yes, you're dense, you can't acknowledge the pitfalls of women cause you are little narcissist

[kylee2437]

The intent of cheating is to have your cake and eat it too and that would be called lack of being direct. People aren’t direct because they want to get what they want with no communication

And who said I said women don’t have issues individually? Lmfao I literally said this isn’t a gender issue. It’s narcissistic to point blame on one gender. That’s actually what my narcissistic abusive ex did , he pointed blame on women meanwhile he’s a serial cheater

[Deserter]

Cause if they are direct they won't still be sleeping with you too, idiot. It's not the fucking same. Women will like a guy and not be direct about it cause they're cowards. They do this plausable deniability crap.

No, the genders are different, acknowledging that isn't bigotry and you are obese

[kylee2437]

Holy crap, you are useless lol and idc what you think of my body sir, you don’t even have a picture of yourself ☺️ trying to stab at me by addressing my looks doesn’t work but nice try

[Deserter]

I own you

[kylee2437]

Okay weirdo

[Deserter]

Why do you dabble in super obesity?

[kylee2437]

Why do you have no picture and feel the need to care about me? Worry about you and your issues

[Deserter]

Oink! 🐷🐖

[kylee2437]

Okay?

[Deserter]

Oink for me Kylee

[kylee2437]

It’s interesting that you can make a convo out of no supply lol

[Deserter]

Ikr lol

[JosyJosy]

No idea but I'm glad, because of that I got me a good boyfriend cause my rival was too scared to make a move.

[Deserter]

That's pretty funny haha

[JosyJosy]

But I hate misunderstandings so I usually just say what's on my mind to get it over with.

[Luopio27]

I used to have this mindset before I finally learned to read them better.


Understanding is the key to success, easier said than done.

[maximumpower]

Double standards that favor their hiding anything and everything.
I don't play the game.

[Anonymous]

I get accused all the time of being too direct.

[Deserter]

Somehow I doubt this, anon girl

[BarryLiverstone]

Because being subtle is safer