What it means, when my gym crush brings a guy and work out near me?

[Anonymous]

I use to admire a girl from distance. I guess she knew I’m admiring her and have crush on her. Lately she is coming with a guy. And since this guy is around her, she works out near me, stands still near the places I work out, sometimes presents herself to my sight. The other day she came to the fountain, where I was waiting for a machine and waited there for at least 2 min, though she packed everything and ready to go home.

I’m not sure if she is just being herself or giving me any hints. But I’m very sure she was not like this before she started bringing this guy.

[Finchie40]

Word of advice do not try to pick up girls at the gym , I know it can be tempting because they are hot but it’s like trying to hook up with a girl at work , it can cause so much drama to the point you won’t want to show your face anymore at that gym if shit goes down , trust me I been there and done it to the point I don’t go to gyms anymore, I work out at home , I know this is going to stir up shit on here but most girls are attention seekers , not every girl but most , she is more than likely working out cuz she is seeking attention , she more than likely already has a boyfriend or she is married or juggling multiple guys , you are best to stay away from that shit of you like that gym

[Asker]

Yeah I’m glad I didn’t approach. I see what you’re saying. Even innocent gets called creepy. And this word has become so very popular in this generation to blame a guy. Yes it does cause damage if we both work out there. How come this cute girls gets that boys. I want a cute girl too. 😃

[FilmGuy93]

He’s just someone she brought to the gym, man lol. I just be friendly and say “Hi” and get a dialogue going.

[Asker]

Can you please help me more in details. Like how do you even say “hi” walking up to the people.

[FilmGuy93]

The way I do it is I approach people with the sole intention of enjoying THAT conversation with the person. Don’t approach women with the intent to get something more from them because they will definitely pick up that you aren’t being sincere. If your only intention is to enjoy interacting with the women, you are going to come across as a more likable person and she will want to have you around because you are genuine with her

[Asker]

I see true. I’d naturally be friendly to people.

[FilmGuy93]

Exactly! 😌 There’s a reason that everyone (nearly everyone) you meet on vacation is cool, while most people where you live are grumpy and suck; the people on vacation are relaxed and don’t want anything from you. Approach women like you would talk with someone on a vacation; that way your conversation will be a success, even if you didn’t get a phone number because your only intention was to enjoy talking with them.

[AddylynnNightingale]

It means she wanted or was okay with the guy joining her and they just happened to workout near you. It's a public place. Only them and the machine they used existed at that moment, and nobody else.

[Asker]

I don’t know if it’s just happening everyday or is it that she wants to present herself before me. Usually she never waits once packed everything. when this is guy is away, She came to the fountain right beside me where I was waiting for a machine and waited for at least 2 min looking herself. The other day I’ve never seen her doing thread mill ever in last few months, I was doing thread mill and she came near the thread mills and started walking. few minutes later, I finished, and purposefully cleaning the machine slowly, so I could be close this cute girl. She then done with hers and waited at the machine knowing I’m looking at her. This sort of actions I’ve not seen before. She is not walking away until I walk away.

This never happened before this guy joined her.

I posted this here to get some help understand this body language.

[EllaNella]

my dude she probably never even noticed you and doesn't think about you. the guy might be her gym buddy or her boyfriend I don't know. but she's probably not trying to get your attention

[Asker]

Well that’s simply very reliving to hear. At first I thought she is bringing him to show me that she has a boyfriend. And not want to get bothered by me. I’ll tell my self she never noticed me.

[WhitneySnow]

If she’s bringing a guy she’s probably not into you. Unless he’s her brother or a platonic friend or something.

[Asker]

This seem more interesting 😍. Can you please please give more details. My sugar brain wants to know if she is really into me.

[WhitneySnow]

I mean maybe but it could be just a coincidence. Try saying hi to her sometime and see what happens. Can’t hurt.

[Stevefiveo]

You should have made your move before she hooked up with the other guy.

[Asker]

I wanted to and I took some time to see if I get any signs. Not wanted to make the situation awkward for both of us, if she is not into me.

[Blacksnake285]

She wants you to stop staring and she's trying to rub it in your face

[Asker]

May be. I’m watching. That’s no bothering me. My curiosity is Sometimes she is by herself waiting near me, getting water from the fountain I’m close to, while this guy is working on the other side.

These kinds of behaviour is new.

This is happening thinking I’d approach her?

[Anonymous]

My guess is she's lathering up that guy in the shower after your workouts.

[Asker]

Could be! good for both. Id wish her luck.

[Opinion Owner]

Would you say her boobs or her butt is her stronger feature. Does the dude have a body that's worth of this chick?

[Asker]

She looks fit, that’s her feature. Can’t particularly go for a part of her body. But the whole human. He looks quite old.

[Opinion Owner]

Interesting. How old would you say she is and how old would you guess he is?

[Fuentes]

I'm sure that other guy is bussing it

[Asker]

Could be but they don’t seem so close. They workout together. I’ve never seen them touching or helping each other.

[In_Trance]

It means you should have made a move sooner

[Asker]

I was waiting for some positive signs, so I wouldn’t make it awkward for both of us at this gym.