She wants to see me in person but we don't message?

[Xenon21]

She is someone who has mental health issues and been going through something. If I message her, she'll flat out ignore it. I'm quite sure she texts others but that's besides the point. If I call her up, she answers and doesn't want to hang up. If I say I want to meet her, she always says yes. If she can't make it then she reschedules.

Do I just ignore the fact that I get ignored or just take the 'actions speak louder than words' road?

[TheWritersDream]

Personally speaking I HATE talking over the phone. I like to talk to people face to face because I can see their reactions to what I’m saying. I can read them better. I can tell if what I’m saying is amusing to them. I can tell if I’m boring them in which case I’ll change the topic to something more interesting.

Not only that, texting makes me nervous. I second guess myself a lot whereas in person I’m more comfortable in myself. I overthink if it takes him too long to respond and then there’s the times I say something too… emotional and I can’t gauge is reaction.

It’s one of the things I find most annoying about myself actually. I wish I could talk comfortably on my phone because the guys I’ve talked to in the past seem to want to go the texting and calling route. When I didn’t respond right away they’d think I was mad at them well in truth, I’m just extremely awkward with a phone.

[Guy13]

That’s your call but clearly hearing your voice is a minimum and seeing your face preferred