Girls, Why is she treating me differently as oppose to other guys?

[andre-48]

She and I know each other but she can bareky say hello to me. It's hard to tell whether she is shy or something. I've only been nice to her and ask how she is etc.

[Cassie08]

If she seems to be able to talk to all the other guys except you, she's obviously just not able to believe you're talking to her. She doesn't know how to deal with it which is why "she can barely say hello" to you. This is because she really has a thing for you ❤️. At least that's the exact same thing I do and what I've seen many others do when they like a guy.

[andre-48]

You act like you don't like them

[Cassie08]

Of course! When you can't deal with liking them, just pretend you don't. It's instinctual logic that everyone does to cope.

[Anonymous]

Hard to say 🤔
She might not feel comfortable around you, she might be shy or something else might be happening.

[andre-48]

She has literally no reason to feel uncomfortable around me. She will have conversation with me when we're alone. But last night she did say hello to me first. But it sounded not like confident hello

[Opinion Owner]

She might be nervous around you. It seems like she is nervous around you for some reason

[andre-48]

I can't think of any reason why she would be nervous around me. Like last night she and I looked at each other and eye contact when on for a few seconds. She really has no reason

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah. It's hard to say what she's feeling. She may like you or she may just be been awkward. Do you like her?

[andre-48]

Yes I've started to like her, but I haven't changed my behaviour towards her

[andre-48]

But she isn't awkward towards other guys

[Opinion Owner]

Was she always this way around you? Or has her behaviour changed too?

[andre-48]

She has always been quieter with me to start with. Then she started opening up and acting more comfortable with me, as so was I. Now she her behaviour has changed

[Opinion Owner]

I think she likes you too. Have you spent time together?

[andre-48]

No not yet, it's just hard cause I felt she doesn't like me due to this type of behaviour

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe wait for more signs from her :)

[andre-48]

Do you think she likes me

[Opinion Owner]

It might be. You mentioned how her behaviour has changed around you. Or, maybe, she knows you like her and isn’t interested, so her behaviour has changed to not give you mixed signals. It’s hard to say

[andre-48]

I haven't exactly done anything to give away I like her. The only thing I've done is made so e effort to talk to her normally that's it really

[Opinion Owner]

You may not have openly admitted it but subconsciously others may have noticed and told her? It’s possible. We don’t always notice our subconscious actions towards others, especially when we like them and we try to “play it cool” 😂
Or she may like you too 😄

[andre-48]

I noticed with her she started angling her body towards me in group settings when talking to another guy. Then as stupid as this sounds she even placed her dominant foot forward and pointing towards me

[Opinion Owner]

It seems like she likes you too. She’s making subconscious moves towards your direction

[andre-48]

Do women really act like they dislike you when in fact they actually like the guy

[Opinion Owner]

Not sure about all women. But, usually, they may distance themselves if they don’t return those feelings a man may have. I guess us women don’t want to give a man mixed signals, you know? 😄

[andre-48]

What about in my situation?

[Opinion Owner]

I don’t think she’s misleading you. You should try and ask her directly on this matter. There’s really no way to know unless you ask 😄

[andre-48]

What do you think she is doing

[Opinion Owner]

Not sure. There really isn’t much to go on. Sorry 😞

[andre-48]

But you think she just likes me back

[Opinion Owner]

It’s possible

[Feistypiranha]

She may have a crush on you. I know I have been that way towards guys I liked vs guys I hung around often.

[andre-48]

How do you behave towards guys you like vs guys you have no feelings for

[Feistypiranha]

Depends honestly.. if I'm comfortable with the guy I'm openly flirting with him, I will also be comfortable placing my hand on his shoulder or arm..

If I'm not comfortable, but I like him I'm more reserved, the English dictionary slips my mind. I don't wanna be awkward so I normally avoid all contact, but will give a friendly smile, and try and work up the nerve to say HI, and beat myself up about it later cause I sounded so stupid 😂

Now guys who I don't have feelings for. It's just casual. Small awkward talk, I'll be sure to drop hints atcha about a potential guy I'm talking to or dating to kinda give them a hint I'm not into them.