Why does the same girl at school look at me so much?

[Anonymous]

I recently switched schools so i know no one in my current school right now the first few weeks were alright i was mostly alone and i noticed everytime i walk by a specific girl she always looks at me , I don't know why i don't even know her and i feel like she’s judging me.

[Anonymous]

Have you tried putting yourself in here shoes? I mean you’ve got to be looking at her to catch her looking at you, even if it’s just quick glances. She may be thinking the same thing about you. And you can’t really say you don’t look at her, unless you’re just assuming she does what she does.

[Asker]

do u ever “feel” when someones looking at you or use your provisional vision , i can jus feel someone staring at me i don’t really need to look or glance to know.

[Opinion Owner]

I had a feeling you’d say that, and was gonna pre-address it but I was like nah maybe not. To me that’s a side effect of being hyper focused on her and the situation to an extent. You can’t be in proximity of her without even mentally acknowledging her presence, sometimes giving in and looking over. Now you two have create something of an eye-tag game with each other for better or worse, so even when you aren’t looking you will literally feel like she is.

[Opinion Owner]

Until you two have a conversation or address the eye-tag, you’ll be stuck in the situation until one of you stops paying attention so intently to the other. Even with the provisional view, to me that’s the extent of “if you can see them, they can see you”. Side glances and stares can be more obvious than you think. You may disagree with all this but you have to admit it’s worth some consideration, be I do think she is having a very similar thought process and awareness that you are.

[Guy13]

Don't pay her any attention... stop glancing her way.

[misfittoy]

she may have a crush