Why do most girls assume I want to flirt with them if we by each other?

[Anonymous]

This isn't always the case but half at the very least

It could by anywhere

Certain vibes I might be giving off?

[CA4444]

Usually girls assume men want to flirt, when young anyway, cause that’s what they experience most of the time but they also forget to actually be aware and pick up clues, so probably not you

[Asker]

So they'll get uncomfortable if I just happens to walk by them because they assume im going to "attempt" to flirt?

[CA4444]

I dont yeah maybe you are giving off some vibes women can feel this sometimes

[Asker]

Any ideas on what particular vibes?

[CA4444]

If you’re too horny basically, or don’t keep distances, women don’t want men to jump at them, this may not be your case at all im just saying

[AdithyaR]

I guess cause that's the general experience. Women will generally have lots of guys hit on them on a frequent basis so they maybe conditioned.

[Asker]

So they resent the majority of guys attempting to hit h with them?

[AdithyaR]

It's understandable tho, if they're bombarded with it a lot of them the time unfortunately it's gonna seem annoying to them. It's not your fault but neither is it theirs.

[AdithyaR]

Plus based on what I've seen with respect to my female friends, a lot of guys hit on them in really creepy ways, either really gross pickup lines or just not taking no for answer. Eventually that's gonna affect their outlook on it.

[Asker]

What about when there much more open to certain guys?

[AdithyaR]

I'm assuming it's cause the guy probably gives off non threatening vibes. Like it or not, women have to pretty much constantly keep their guards up cause we gotta accept that there are dangerous men out there and it's hard to immediately recognise whether a guy's dangerous or not. So they're constantly looking for signs of that, now this might not always work out cause psychopaths can mimic being harmless.
But nonetheless, women are going to be on the lookout for signs of danger. So they're more likely to be open towards guys that probably give off signs of being safe.

[Asker]

"safe" as in attractive

[AdithyaR]

Additionally, attraction is a major factor. It's a fact, everyone regardless of gender will be more receptive to someone they find attractive. And that's not either of the party's fault. They're just incompatible.
But attractiveness is subjective and everyone has different tastes.

[Asker]

There was an incident where a random chick gave me one of the nastiest scowls you could imagine & I've never seen her in my life besides running into her on occasion in school

[AdithyaR]

I assume that's cause she's had to deal with guys who wouldn't take no for answer before. Now she doesn't know what kind of guy you are so for her safety, just tried to get you to leave quickly?

[Anonymous]

We assume this of all guys.

[Asker]

Really? Because from what I've seen & been around only the guys in the "friends zoned" or the ones getting there or the very attractive