What does it mean besides the obvious when a guy calls you fun?

[amberstone]

i juss need further clarification on what he really means

[Gregs]

well there is a deep meaning behind the word fun and way way he says it, now, pay close attention, when he says you are "fun" does he say it on then upward tone at the end? This may indicate that he thinks you are childish/immature, he may still like you and possibly want to marry you but you would have to put in a bit more work. Or does he slant it down, and enthesis the "N" deeply, This translates that he does not think much of you at all, he is perhaps even been a bit sarcastic, a good time to walk away from him. Does he keep a constant "fun"? perhaps making it quite short, now, you may think this just means that he thinks you are fun in the traditional sense of the world but really this is the best result you can get, the literal close to exact translation is "I want to marry you right now, have 2 kids with you and one of them to be a boy called Mark" rarely is the boys name anything else in these cases. If he slants his fun up and down, you may or may not be dating a clown. At night when he comes home, check his pockets for any indication, random lolies, face makeup, some maybe more obvious but other things like overly large spare buttons may need a keen eye to find. Furthermore if you still doubt what he meant by fun, make sure to dwell on it, we are our best teachers and there are MANY different inflations that cannot be touched upon, attribute your own meanings to his using your "thoughts" and note them down, then share them with your fellow women folk so as to exclude a little confusion when a guy says they are fun, and hope that black people never, ever come up with another word for it

[Anonymous]

Depends on the context. It could mean that he thinks you'll have no strings sex or at least foreplay with him. Or it could just mean that you have a good sense of humor and are enjoyable to be around.

[amberstone]

exactly! that's what I was wondering

[Opinion Owner]

well when did he say it..what were you guys talking about at the time?

[amberstone]

he says it a lot and its usually wen we have our heart to hearts bout how we like being friends...but you never know because I have a sexuall humor. but wev never done antthing sexual

[Opinion Owner]

So then I don't think he means it in a sexual manner he just genuinely enjoys your company.

[amberstone]

ok thanks

[Anonymous]

clarification on what he means...? umm... well, what did he say?

[amberstone]

i have the most fun with u. another time your my best friend because your juss fun...but what is fun ha ha in terms of a relatonship? like does that totally keep me in the friend zone or cud it give me an edge on datin him?

[Opinion Owner]

oh, that's a good thing. he enjoys being around you.

[slipslender]

that you're fun. lively. good time.

[Anonymous]

he likes to be around you