Why would a girl you are dating be upset over a girl that you fooled around with way before you even knew her?

[Finchie40]

Some Girl’s tend to talk about their exes I guess to make a guy jealous but if the guy talks about his exes she gets pissed off? Why do most girls do this?

[NathanDavis]

it's like you've had all of the worst ever experiences in one life time, lol... and it is always bad women

I can't really relate to this, lol

[Finchie40]

@NathanDavis sadly I have , mainly because I didn’t want to enter the dating world again , I thought I married the girl I was going to spend the rest of my life with , until she burned me badly out of nowhere , Having your heart shit on changes your whole perspective of relationships and gave me a much more open mind about things when I never really was this way before , giving your heart to someone that claims they wanted the same things , family ,, kids , Trust, love , honesty , working together as a team , I had all of that with my ex wife and her selfishness took the better of her , for a long time I blamed myself , kept asking myself what did I do wrong for her to destroy what we had together to finally realize it wasn’t me , it was her , I blame a lot on social media Facebook to me was the turning point in most people’s lives getting addicted to their phones , talking to people you probably would of never saw or heard from again having easy access to enter back into your life , I remember living in a time when we didn’t plant our heads into a phone , So I feel social media and technology fucked with so many people’s heads , even when I was married I had ex girlfriends reaching out to me and I just laughed like WTF , Out of respect for my marriage I immediately told those exes that I was married with kids , but it didn’t stop them from messaging me etc. So I took myself off of Facebook because I saw the damage it could do , as for my ex she was glued to her fucking phone secretly talking to guys from work that were doing the same thing my exes were doing to me , She didn’t want to hear me , I was just an insecure bastard that didn’t trust her so I just let it go to come to find out she was secretly screwing a co worker , so by that happening to me gave me the open mindset when it comes to relationships, and made me who I am today , I am not
Going to get into a relationship with a girl that isn’t going to prioritize me , that isn’t going to make me feel

[Finchie40]

Valued and wanted , that isn’t going to just be with me for the convenience, I take relationships seriously and trying to figure out a girl is pretty much near impossible. When I finally entered back into the dating world I cane across more crazy shit to the point felt like what happened to people? Like where is
The trust and respect, Most girls I met were secretly married cheating on their husbands with me and I didn’t find out until after the fact after I had tons of sex with her the truth would come out, so it’s like people are absolutely ducking selfish and only really care about themselves, so for me to get committed again the girl has a lot of walls to climb because I am protecting my heart as much as possible , I don’t want to experience being shit on again , The only way I can love someone is if they give back the same I am giving or it won’t work , to me it’s just a waste of time

[Finchie40]

Girls I meet today are selfish to the point I can see why cuz most guys today are selfish so I don’t blame girls a 100 percent , But I believe social media has destroyed the way girl’s think today as well that all men are assholes , and have a hard tim e trusting men as well, So I tend to wear her shoes like i want her to wear mine , what most girls don’t grasp is respect , If she is telling me about an ex like he was this prize possession then I am going to throw it right back on her face about my ex because to me it’s disrespectful , Girl’s today like to compare their men to others which to me is fucked up , if your ex was so amazing then why is he your ex? I have experienced and witnessed so many guys and girls be selfish to the point why are they even wasting their time being in a relationship? Convenience

[DizzyDesii]

I dont care if he has exes but i do care about who how many he got sexual with. A dude can tell me about his ex all day but dont tell how you fcked a hoe. That’ll tick me off

[Anonymous]

It probably depends what was said. But all types of people have a kinds of hangup that's for sure. It's just part of dating.

[Gabriel-Chicanito]

Cause she's hotter?