Why is this thick girl keeps looking at me when there's a hotter guy standing closer to her?

[Anonymous]

[Guy13]

Assume the first Option; consider and move past the second option.

You obviously have a stronger presence than the other guy. It may be visual, chemical (pheromones), flawed but cute, rather than Perfect in every way.

lt is equally possible that she was using her display of affection to weaken the other guy's Self worldview and to get the guy to ask the same question as you asked.-In the form of, "you got to be kidding, look at him".

She has given you permission to ask her out. If you ask her out the FIRST moment you see her then you are definitely a Truck Guy. Keep her away from traffic walking the street... think her Safety... and a woman will rest her read on the Truck Guy's shoulder while walking in Safety. Make CERTAIN that you always open her door to her truck and assure she's in without acknowledging it. Handle it with a gentle strength. Good Luck !!

[Looksnicholas]

I'm sure similar things have happened to us all guys at times, where there's some average to even really good-looking women either staring at me, looking at me, or it's a singular woman looking or glancing. Sometimes I'm often amused or bemused, or I politely ignore or I might glance back with a puzzled look.

And move on with my day like nothing of it, because if they were into me, than don't just look and not strike up a conversation to me, so anyways I'm 28 and still single, so I'm glad no gold-digger lady has tried chatting me up yet.

I'd just politely excuse myself and carry on with my day or my errands. 😊😊🥳🥳😋😋

[Asker]

I don't understand why the thick lady was looking at me then the hot guy who has more value then I do. The hot guy can Provide her the needs like better sex, Security and so on and shit The dude has a sports car I mean come on. Woman love sports cars and even the classic cars. They also say sports and big trucks bigger then mine makes the guy more sexy 😎. The hot dude makes more money then i do. At night time I work at a old clock store. It's slow and don't care about the income.

[Anonymous]

Everyone has their preferences. You're hotter to her than the other guy. She may feel more comfortable/safe around you. Maybe you remind her of someone. Could be a lot of reasons!

[Asker]

But The hotter guy has a sexy sports car. All I got is a crappy 2005 green ford ranger truck 😕

[Opinion Owner]

Not every woman cares about cars.

[Asker]

But I’m a ugly old fart chubby guy who works at a department store during the day and at night works at a old clock store alone at night.

[Opinion Owner]

Sounds like she likes you. You shouldn't sell yourself short. You already have a nice girl that likes you.

[Asker]

I’m single, never had any relationships or gone out on dates. That thick lady is better off with the hotter guy who has higher self-esteem and more confidence then I do

[Opinion Owner]

She's doesn't know all that. But if you really feel that way I guess then just let her go. I don't know what else I can say other than refute everything you say. 😕

[Asker]

The other guys have far more charm and confidences have better luck with her then I would. Plus I work a lot and have no time for her

[Tina19]

Maybe she is uncomfortable of that guy and look at you i look at my mom when a hot guy keeps looking at me in a public setting

[Asker]

But The hotter guy has a sexy sports car. All I got is a crappy 2005 green ford ranger truck 😕

[Tina19]

Girls care about their safety first

[Curmudgeon]

She is self aware enough to know that you are a more realistic option than the hunky guy.

[Asker]

If you lived in my area. You can have her.

[Curmudgeon]

When did I say that you had to have her? I am just stating what I think is going on, namely, that she knows she has no choice with the hunk, but she thinks that she *might* have a chance with you. You are under no obligation to affirm her wishes, of course.

[Asker]

No because There’s better charming guys out there then me. The hotter and charming guys always get the lady’s

[Curmudgeon]

"The hotter and charming guys always get the" *hotter and charming* "lady’s."

There, fixed it for you.

Once again, since she is thick, she is not one of the hotter and charming ladies. So she has set her sights a bit lower, and that means you. Again, I am not saying you are obligated to take her. But do understand the possibilities that (1) she is realistic, and (2) you are not so bad, even if you are not the hunk.

In dating, just like in Economics, there is a "Theory Of The Second Best". Since she cannot get optimal, she is going for the next best, or what she thinks is the next best.

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Theory_of_the_second_best

[Asker]

And if I did lost my drivers licenses. I bet you she’ll leave me for someone else and that’s a huge huge turn off for them

[Curmudgeon]

OK, I can't fix your problems for you. But I *can* give you what I honestly think is an accurate assessment of what is going on.

And who knows? Maybe she is willing to compromise on the driving issue too. Maybe your lack of a car is appealing because she feels safer because after all, that means you won't be able to drive her out to a remote location and try to rape her. Again, who knows?

The point is - you don't know. And what have you got to lose? Is this a professional job where such a move is bad for your standing at work? No? Then chat with her and see what happens.

[Curmudgeon]

Oh wait - in another response you reply that you have a truck. So are you merely *afraid* you might lose your license? Did you have a DUI recently? Maybe you should just realistically think about the worst that realistically could happen, namely, she rejects you and you are embarrassed. But hunky "Chad" isn't scooping her up either, is he?

[Asker]

Like I said she's better off with someone who’s better then me. Plus i don’t have time for relationships. My driving is fine I’m just saying In a scenario if I lost my license. And the things I been hearing about women leaving their man who lost their licenses.

[Curmudgeon]

So you are going to let unlikely "what if" scenarios paralyze you with fear? And if you just don't have time for her, then why pine about it?

[Anonymous]

A lot of people don't realize how hot they are...

[Asker]

Not me, im chubby, but the hotter, skinny guy is

[Opinion Owner]

So you think the skinny guy is hot
It doesn't mean she does 😜

[Asker]

But hot and skinny guys have more Confidences and are more charming. Also have better looks

[Opinion Owner]

Disagree.. but to each their own 🤷‍♀️

[Andres77]

Do you have a huge mole on your forehead?