Why would a girl be quieter with me only for no reason?

[andre-48]

She is normal with every other guy/girl. But when I come onto the scene she goes quiet. Then she struggles to keep talking to me when we chat, hence the reason I think she hates me. But then she try and starts conversation with me, but making small statements to me.

[Guy13]

She either has a crush on you or you scare her to death.

[andre-48]

She honestly has no reason to be scared of me. I've only ever been nice to her. What would explain her behaviour of her starting some conversation with me, but then acts like she dislikes me. But keeps starting small talk. For example she asked me at the bar counter ' what are you drinking?'

[Guy13]

Maybe she wants you to try to close deal with a date? Or maybe she is seeking attention…?

[andre-48]

You still think she likes me?

[Guy13]

It seems like. Just find out. It’s a New Year…push the envelope a little.

[andre-48]

What are the moments when she and I have made eye contact, then I get this vibe she wants to say something to me. Then I felt drawn towards her. It's just an awkwardness I get between us for no reason.

[andre-48]

When I see her then I get instant butterflies in my stomach, suddenly I don't feel like eating food. Mainly my stomach turns upside down

[Anonymous]

Could go either way. Either she likes you and doesn't know what to say, or she doesn't like you and doesn't know what to say. Either way, don't sweat it. It's not your problem. You just be you man.

[robbo]

Me personally, I get shyest around the guys I like the most…. Which is part of why I’m still single.

[andre-48]

Do you think this could be the case here? She and I have had these eye contact moments and suddenly I get this vibe she wants to say something to me. So I get drawn towards her

[KathrynTaylor]

She fancies you or she doesn’t like you. Why not ask her?

[andre-48]

The only thing is she will eventually initiate some kind of conversation with me. Might be something small. Like for example she said to me when I was waiting at the bar " what are you drinking?". Or she said to me from across the table " did it just get louder in here?"