Does this girl like, like me even though she has a boyfriend bc I'm confused?

[Anonymous]

I would like to know everyone's opinion on this bc I'm confused

[Whateveryousay99]

if she’s talking to you and have a boyfriend, what do you think she’s going to do if you decide to become a couple? she’s for the streets, just clap and move on. a girl will cry and tell you she loves you when she really doesn’t mean it. just smash and move on. you’re playing with fire

[coachTanthony]

She either wants you or simply likes the validation you can never tell via text. So you need to make a move and find out.

[Asker]

I did she didn't say no or yes she said wait what you like me?

[coachTanthony]

You should say I don't know let's meet and find out.

[Asker]

I made her jealous so now ik she likes me

[Asker]

I posted a pic of one of my friends that's a girl and she said who's that I said my girlfriend as a joke and she put hearts and stuff after complaining that I liked her lol bc she didn't know why

[coachTanthony]

I get it that's all fun and dandy but you going to ask her out or what?

[Asker]

When I get to know her more bc now I know bc me and my friends have been trying to decipher her bc she's a bit confusing to me and now I know

[coachTanthony]

Okay cool

[Asker]

Bc she's not one to open up to anyone really I feel evil for doing what I did but I wanted to know, and now she jealous I'm an INFJ-A so I just want to understand everyone in general

[lizardbc]

Girly wants you soooo bad lmao I dont even think I'd be that up front

[Asker]

Then why did she kinda reject me say she likes me as a friend is it anxiety, I know she gets anxious badly

[lizardbc]

She's probably nervous. If somebody talks to you like that they are crushing on you to some extent.

[Asker]

Yeah that's what I thought so I told her how I felt and she said Whatttt ? U like me! I don't understand why? Is that my u got weird when I told u that ur my type?

[Asker]

And then I put damn I was afraid you'd say that and she put, U shouldn't like me

[Asker]

I think she might be insecure or something

[lizardbc]

Probably. Just let her deal with things however she wants to.

[Asker]

Why would she say all that though I'm confused everyones says she likes me but why would someone like someone and then deny them I'm she'll shocked fr

[lizardbc]

Jumping into a relationship can be really scary especially when its your first time.

[Asker]

So do you think she's lying about having a boyfriend to be cool or something

[Asker]

Bc she told me she has one or whatever and texts me like that

[lizardbc]

"I want to see it Friday w boyfriend"
"Do you still want to go see it?"

I don't know how else to explain it lol. She's giving you all the hints.

[Asker]

Wait so she wants to date me? I'm damn confused

[JPresidente]

Dude, this chick is in to you like beans on rice. She shouldn't be talking to you like this if she has a boyfriend. Sign of immaturity on her part and possible red flag.

[Asker]

Probably is a big red flag not gonna lie

[JPresidente]

It is. I didn't want to be brutally honest but yeah, you gotta use caution with her.

[Asker]

Yep she's very anxious and when I told her I liked her I prolly made her anxiety sky rocket to the ceiling she prolly had a mini heart attack and then replied with that

[JPresidente]

Understandable. If you pursue, there would obviously be hurdles to overcome. If you do not pursue, you definitely are going to have to let her down gently.

[Asker]

Yeah I know but she like talks to me for a solid 3 days straight constant then distances herself it confuses mr

[Asker]

It confuses me*

[JPresidente]

Sounds like she interested in you and you make her feel special by talking to her but then either guilt kicks in for her about talking to you while having a boyfriend or she gets busy with said boyfriend and thus you don't hear from her for a while.

[Asker]

That's why I told her my feelings so if she'd have to choose and idc about the answer lol

[JPresidente]

I hear ya. If it were me, I'd move on from her. I know that sounds easy 'cause trust me, I've been where you're at and when a woman shows that much interest in you, it feeds the ego and is hard to resist. Short term pain, long term gain for both of you as I see too many issues but it's your call.

[Asker]

I dead ass think she might be lying to me about her "boyfriend" though I've never seen him before

[joeldalton]

yeah, she's DTF

[Asker]

That's what I was thinking so I told her how I felt she rejected me so I'm leaving her on read since she wanna play hard to get lol