Im attracted to a woman that shops at my store and I think it’s mutual. how do I make sure she is interested or is it a bad idea all together?

[Anonymous]

She is always in a hurry but the last few times she takes her time looking around until I’m done With other customers so nobody is behind her. Almost seems like a green light? But she seems nervous too it doesn’t help.

[OlderAndWiser]

Tell her, "I get off work at 9:00 pm and then I am going to Panera's for a cup of coffee. Perhaps I'll run into you there!" That gives her the opportunity to show up and signal her interest.

[Asker]

How do you know I get off at 9😅

[Asker]

While apparently it works for a lot of people I was never confident using that for some reason.

[OlderAndWiser]

It was just a guess.

Developing some self-confidence is an absolute must. It is a large part of what attracts women. You can develop self-confidence by forcing yourself to have experiences which may be intimidating at this point, but you'll get accustomed to that.

[Asker]

@OlderAndWiser it’s not my confidence it’s just probably I’ve know people used that line if you wanna call it I. Situations didn’t feel appropriate

[Asker]

@OlderAndWiser I know that’s not the case here but it’s just me that’s why I said no confident saying it sorry

[OlderAndWiser]

If you do have some confidence, then why don't you just say to her, "I always enjoy talking to you but it's never enough time when I'm working. Would you like to meet me for a cup of coffee after work sometime soon?"

[Asker]

@OlderAndWiser that’s yes sounds much much better thank you

[OlderAndWiser]

I hope you will post an update to let us know how this works out for you!

[Asker]

I will thank you, thanks everyone

[OlderAndWiser]

Thanks for MHO!

[es20490446e]

If she is interested, she will let you know.

You only need to make it easy for her to come.

[Anonymous]

Put your number on her receipt next time and see if she texts.

[boobliker]

give her your number or just ask her to meet for drinks at lunch?

[Guy13]

Don’t do it

[Asker]

Yeah I probably gotta give it some time

[In_Trance]

Bad idea

[Asker]

I thought so