Why would girls send nudes to a guy who didn't ask for the nudes and hasn't even asked them out on a date?

[Weapon77]

Is it possible they are only wanting something like e-sex? Or are they just that desperate to snag a guy?

[D_Bone_Steak]

I'd say don't take the bait. My son ran into a chick that did that with him and a bunch of other guys and the next thing that was happening I was talking to the local sheriff because the girl was some officer's kid. It's attention driven to begin with and since the chick was sending it to so many dudes... that's what saved my son's ass from going to jail. I don't know what is with this younger generation, just don't take the jail bait.

[Guy13]

This is very poor judgment and I question if a girl like this would make a good girlfriend choice. Whatever happened to facetime, calling, or texting. I am a bit taken back that a girl would freely send her junk to another guy unsolicited.

[Weapon77]

I know what you mean! It blew my mind that they would do that. I obviously stopped talking to them and never dated them because if I could get nudes without even trying, I have to wonder what else they've given out freely. And I have to wonder about STDs and other stuff.

[Guy13]

Exactly, who knows what other baggage the Luggage is carrying

[Anonymous]

If a guy isn't taking a hint it says you can have this if you want it. It's not desperate for a guy but desire for a particular guy.

[Weapon77]

Right, so it's purely sexual and not wanting a relationship then

[SlothySlob]

I think these women don't know how to "flirt" and just default to what they know works.

[Weapon77]

That seems like the case with many of them now that I think about it! Several of them were overweight and it seems like they figured they'd just use the fact that they big tits.

[NathanDavis]

best way to find out is... to ask them in the first place

[Weapon77]

Nah, girls never tell the truth right away for fear of being judged. And sometimes they don't ever tell the truth. But it's not like I have to know that bad that I'm going to make them feel like theyre on trial and need to explain. I'm just curious if anyone has any insight

[NathanDavis]

maybe you're not worthy of truth... that's always a possibility

[Weapon77]

Then apparently none of us are worthy of truth

[NathanDavis]

we've had very different experiences... lol

[Weapon77]

Perhaps. Or more likely is that you have believed all the lies your exes and romantic entanglements have told you. More of them lied than told the truth statistically. There are several studies that show that around half of all people in relationships lie often. And if you weren't the dishonest one, I have bad news for you.

It's not a bad thing to be trusting though! It just backfires for a lot of guys when girls manipulate how trusting they are.

Now, I'm sure your female family members and friends are honest and open with you if that's where you disagreed.

[NathanDavis]

let me ask... do you speak from experience?

have some women been this bad to you all along?

[Weapon77]

I speak a bit from experience, and some personal, but mostly from the experiences of others. Even most of my female friends say they lie about the reason when they break up with guys. It doesn't mean they did anything repugnant, but they still lied. They'd say they wanted to focus on school or something when they really just found a new guy they liked better. But then there are worse examples too. Then there is the recent research that women like more often than men do a out being unfaithful. Is that irrefutable? Certainly not, but it also is concerning enough to show that the attitude of far to many modern women is that they should be awful and dishonest just because a lot of men are also awful and dishonest.

[NathanDavis]

the only interpretation from this could be that your friends are liars, that's it

[Weapon77]

Only? lmao No. It's also possible you are an overly trusting person. Or maybe you are a gullible chump (hopefully not). Or maybe my friends lie more than your friends. Or maybe your friends are too naive to know they SHOULD lie to some guys. Or maybe, as is the case with reality most of the time, it's a mixture of all of the above. You gotta get away from these generalities bro. They are factually wrong for one thing.

[NathanDavis]

if you lack trust... then you never really had friends in the first place

[Weapon77]

See, I'm only friends with people I trust. And I trust some family. Do I trust them enough to just take everything they say and do as gospel? Of course not. No one is perfect. But I would never DIStrust them. But most people should be distrusted until they earn trust.
Trusting strangers is a foolish and dangerous habit.

[NathanDavis]

yet you say... your friends are liars

quite the conundrum in here

[Weapon77]

You really enjoy trolling lmao

I said my friends told me they lied to guys about why they broke up with them. And people they know lied about dating/fucking people besdies their SOs. That's not in the slightest saying my friends are liars. Which means you are the one lying and trying to twist things.

You know damn well we all lie about some things sometimes. There's no way you always tell the truth. And my aboce paragraph literally gives an example of you lying lmao So enjoy that

[NathanDavis]

if they lie and keep lying... then they are liars

to assume that they only lie to others but never to you, well... one would wish for that

your words, not mine

[Weapon77]

Exactly my point. You should always be aware that anyone you know could be lying to you at any point. That's just part of being an adult. I'm confused that you think you can trust everyone you know to be truthful all the time woth you and everyone they know. That's extremely naive. So your correlated statement that people who lie more than once are liars is similarly naive. Women, for instance have to sometimes daily lie to men to avoid being in dangerous situations. It doesn't make those women liars. Being a liar comes down to willfully making a habit of telling falsehoods that cause others harm and don't protect anyone. So me acknowledging that most girls lie about dating and sex doesn't mean they are all liars. Maybe they think they need to, who knows. It doesn't mean they are trying to cause harm or get sick enjoyment from it.

[NathanDavis]

glad we have experienced very different lives... you and me

I didn't have to grow up so cynical

[Weapon77]

And I didn't have to grow up so naive and delusional

[NathanDavis]

says the one asking dozens of questions he can't figure out... lol

[Weapon77]

I don't think you get how this app works lmao And I think you have a misconception of what "cynical" means. Anyway, not everything we ask here is for the asker to find out about. Mostly it's for app engagment. So you ask things people will have opinions or info on. A lot of this is meant for random internet people to search and hopefully find an answer to a question they have similar to the one asked.

But you literally just illustrated the difference between us with your statement. I ask questions because I am cynical (which is a quality we should all have to an extent), which means I know the established powers and society are very flawed and can't always be trusted. I question things or give people food for thought because I don't just blindly go along with things.

You apparently blidnly go with things for the most part, as evidenced by your response.

[NathanDavis]

you're one assume... I am one to observe

if, you wanted to point differences, that is

[Weapon77]

You have that exactly opppsite lmao I observe the world to reach my conclusions. I observe a hell of a lot more than you, apparently. You just see what you want to see around you. That not observation, bud. That's being deluded. You go around in blissful ignorance from what I can tell.

[NathanDavis]

the irony of that... lol

[Weapon77]

Exactly! It blows my mind that you can't see the irony of everything you say. But that is the thing about being deluded. One thinks one is observant. It come down to a difference of perspective. If you don't know the true context of your own statements and those of others, it's like looking on the blind side of a 2-way mirror. You think you see everything.

[NathanDavis]

that's rich... lol

[Wise4myage]

She's obviously interested in the guy, or just super horny.

[Weapon77]

Plausible! But surely they can't be horny enough to do that instead of just masturbating.

[Juxtapose]

Money $$$

[Weapon77]

Nah, these weren't those spammers/scammers we all know haha These are real girls, and I've met some of them in person! They were off Tinder usually and would just send nudes the moment I made a somewhat flirtatious remark lmao If their goal was money, they failed miserably because now I have a ton of free nudes. Like what the hell?