Guys would you break up with a girl if she didn't send nudes?

[NotAggainn]

I just started talking too this guy I met online. It's sort of a LDR since he lives about 40min away. We get along well and I really like him, but he keeps asking for nudes. Whenever I tell him no he says he's on with it but then he'll bring it up again in a day or two. I don't think it's safe too send nudes so there's no reason i would. He's also tried too send me nudes, but I say no catse i want it to be unfair. What should I do?

[centerline]

NO... no one is required to send ANYTHING, anytime for any reason...

if you want to see his nudes, go for it, but you dont need to reciprocate unless you told him you would, just let him know up front that you dont care what he sends, but you aren't sending any of your own in return.

you have every right to change your mind anytime you decide to, but dont be wishy-washy about your decision... make it and stand firm until YOU see a REASON to change your mind... dont let someone else do it for you, especially when it comes to your privacy...

[Anonymous]

It wouldn't be an immediate deal-breaker, but perhaps cause for concern, and I'd want to understand why. For example, if she were afraid to get intimate at all even after dating for a considerate amount of time, that could show a lack of interest or past trauma. If she were worried about me leaking the pics, I might see that as a sign that she doesn't trust me. Hopefully you get the idea. Not getting nudes is not in itself a relationship-ending offense, but the underlying reason for that behavior may be, or at the very least it may be something worth discussing and working on.

[NotAggainn]

I'm ok with in person stuff, I just don't like the idea of losing control over a picture like that.

[Espresso-Grande]

Be more assertive with him. Tell him "NO"... again, then tell him never to ask you for nudes again. Because it's never gonna happen. If he continues to ask after you tell him no, then maybe you need to reflect on if he's the right guy for you.

If he doesn't stick around because you won't send him nudes, just be thankful that you didn't. Because it shows he has ulterior motives for being with you, and can't be trusted with photos of you

[mindNsoul]

He is showing you how much he doesn't respect your boundaries already which is a red flag. Also, he is showing you that when he doesn't get what he wants he will nag you until he does.

And you dont want a man to blackmail you in the future so don't do it. Or fights with you and to hurt you post them online. Things are always cool at the begining.

I would be careful with him or will most likely stop talking to him.

[meetkitty123]

The question you should be asking isn't
"Guys would you break up with a girl if she didn't send nudes?"
It should be
"Why haven't I broken up with a man who keeps demanding nudes"
Or
"Girls how fast would you break up with a man who keeps demanding nudes?"
You need to give him a final and only warning.
DO NOT ASK ME AGAIN FOR ANOTHER NUDE OR ELSE WE ARE DONE. if he doesn't stop
YOU BREAK UP WITH HIM

[Rocco7070]

Of course not! I dont want to see everyone naked, thats only something that happens if everythings ok, everyone agrees. If no, i dont bring it up again, see her nude isn't necessery all the time, were not rutting animals. So, what if she broke up with you cause you kept everything under wraps? Dont even ask this question, she's maybe even more alluring clothed! Some girls dont have to undress to be attractive! Most in fact!

[CaptainOverthink]

He's being lustful. And it's understandable. But don't send nudes unless you're okay with the risk of those pictures going other places. And No, breaking up over nudes is not really a valid reason for a breakup.

However you could still sext him. Describe a fantasy of him to him. Send his mind on a sexual journey. Its the next best thing without meeting up.😊
It can feel a bit embarrasing at first but it can be a lot of fun.

[spartan55]

Actually mean it when you say no. Say "dude you already asked me how many times?" (him: some stupid response) "and what did I say?" NO... DON'T FUCKING ASK ME AGAIN. You can skip the profanity, but you get my drift.
He is trying to wear you down and get you to change his mind. Any guy who respected you would only need to be told NO once. Is this the best moron you can find to whatever with?

[Kaneki05]

Hell no. As some who has mostly LDRs and all that and well obvious girls shouldn't give them out them quickly. A guy should never ask you for nudes unless your ready to and you offer. I have waited months before to even get just some. Because i respect there choice. And that respect is one main thing needed.

[Kaneki05]

Also 40mins away is pretty close so that's even worse than just some random guy across the ocean. This guy can easy do anything insane since 40mins ain't far.

[chriscdi]

well as a person that doesn't do that shit i can understand where you are coming from, confront him and tell him that you seriously dont want too and to stop insisting, if he doesn't understand then its obvious he doesn't care about anything but his sexual benefit.

[DWornock]

If I liked her, of course not, However, if she is foolish enough and most young women are to be f**king and/or chasing after some hot Alpha male that is way out of her league, most likely he would. After all, for him, she just an easy piece that only good for a few f**ks before he moves on to the next foolish girl.

[Anonymous]

I agree with all the women's comments so far. I'd never ask in the first place, but if I ever did, I'd only ask once. The answer is no, that's that. I question his true interest in you. Is that all he's after? Is there any interest in you beyond that?

[Madhatter920]

Tell him "no means no." If he can't wrap his head around that, you really don't need to be with him. That's not the kind of guy you want to associate yourself with. It'll cause you nothing but trouble in the future.

[Reaperbot666]

I personally don't like the whole sending nudes or spicy photos to others. bond to get leaked at some point online. and cause all kinds of chaos for whomever is in them.

[Wise4myage]

A 40 minute drive is not considered long distance, but he is low class moron who deserves to be dumped immediately.

[TraceyByrd]

Why are you even wasting ur time on sum dummy like that? Like uhh noo 🚫💯😒

[Shamalien]

Lol no, and if a guy does, he never really liked you much in the first place. If you do decide to send em tho, just make sure your face is not visible and that the room cannot be identified as your place of living.

[_SOARER]

This guy is wayyyy too horny and can't think straight at all
I think it's a red flag tbh. He should at least take the 40min drive to visit you before asking for nudes smh

[BCA6010]

No, because I wouldn't ask for them in the first place.

[zagor]

No, and if I didn't know her well I'd think she was an idiot if she did send nudes. If I want nudes there are plenty of hot ones on the internet. I'll make any judgment about her in person.

[In_Trance]

Send nudes... just not your nudes. Guys are fkn dumb; he won't know any different

[JimboGB]

A 40min drive ot hour on the bus isn't long distance. Well not long enough he shouldn't be coming to see you. REDFLAGCITY

[JimboGB]

🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

[Dchrls78104]

No. I would break up at once with a girl if she did send nudes.

[NotAggainn]

Why? I don't think your wrong or anything I'm just curious as to why

[Dchrls78104]

Because sending nudes is proof not of love but of stupidity; there is always the chance that the wrong person (s) can see the nudes; and it cheapens the relationship as well as the one sending the nudes.

[Anonymous]

What are you stupid? NO! NO, NO, NO, a 100 times no. Any woman that is stupid enough to fall for that deserves to have her pics shared all over the internet!

[Roberto5643]

I’d be curious to know why but I wouldn’t break up with her

[_DARKNESS_]

Only shallow guys would break up with a girl that doesn’t send nudes. I like girls who don’t send nudes :)

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Definitely NO. I don't want those, AT ALL. That's a poor chose. It shows you're a user. Not you I'm just saying

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't even ask for such things. If she wants to send them that is at her discretion. At your age you shouldn't be sending nudes; as it is illegal.

[NotAggainn]

Yea that's also another reason for me 😬

[Luca_L]

Don't send him nudes, if he doesn't respect your decision you should stay away.

[dre_3454]

Nah if a person like you your body shouldn't be the only thing on they mind 😌

[Truthatanycost]

I'm more likely to break up with one if she did...

[FactNotFeeling]

If I was a fucking tool, yes.

[Ripper_E]

I wouldn't ask for or expect nudes

[Liam_Hayden]

No, but I would if she did. That is so trashy.

[JamesBlackDragon]

i hope not but I'm sure some would

[3dbrah]

Lol no never. Especially if she is not 18 yet.

[888theGreat]

I don't ask for them, so I would dump him

[Jacked_Jones]

17 and already braindead.

[CT_CD]

Yes..

[F1nski]

Nope

[asshole_]

Nope