Would you lose respect for a girl if she sends you nudes?

[Anonymous]

I read somewhere that guys like surprise "naughty" texts but this guy gets upsets if I post pictures in party dresses or low cut shirts. And he said "I'm not like other guys... I don't want you posting sexy pictures and I've never asked you for nudes because I respect you too much" Should I still send him surprise "naughty" pictures/texts? I obviously don't want to lose his respect. Would you lose respect for a girl if she sent you "naughty" pictures?

[MikeAndMolly]

No, in general nudes and nudity don't affect my respect for a woman, and in fact it shows courage and an open mind that make me respect someone more.

The only way it might reduce my respect for you is if one or both of us are in a relationship with another person and the nude represents an invitation to cheat.

Otherwise I'm good with it.

[boltgun]

If he doesn't like u posting so eveyone can see that doesn't mean he doesn't like it if u send it to him only. But if he said i don't want any at all than don't even send to him privately.

[Asker]

Thank you for being the only person who read the question correctly!! Everyone else seems to think I keep sending him pictures after he told me to stop.

[boltgun]

Lol i feel honoured.

[Anonymous]

I lose the respect for men sending me nudes, especially announced. I still like and keep the pictures, but I still lose the respect unless we're in an exclusive relationship.

[Young_Sarin]

Some men likes to place the girl they like on a pedestal. They want you to be their innocent angel and when you don't comform to that image then they may feel uncomfortable. I was one of those guy and i realised now that firstly i didn't know the girl well enough and secondly the person I like is my imagination of her and not what she is like as a person.

Over time i hope that I am now more mature and learnt to like a girl for who she is and all her quirks.

If you really like him then I would suggest speaking to him about it early but thats just my opinion.

[Thatastic]

The sexier thing to do would be to send him polaroids of nudes that way they stay off the internet and it also counts as a gift and doing so shows youve put in effort to respect yourself so he doesn't have to go so hard on 'respecting women' and he can wank to sexy ass pictures with no guilt.

[stewpedasso]

Intimate photos shared between a couple in an ltr is not a problem unless one gets jaded, there is a break up, or one is seeking revenge. Then you've just helped release what you thought to be pics out of love to the world. Dressing in sexy outfits is okay. There is NOTHING wrong with nudity or the human form. If you're secure in love and proud of your partners body, then what's the problem?

[michael041987]

if he told you to stop you should just stop.
I wouldn't lose respect. I like naked girls. Only if I was in a relationship, I wouldn't want girls to send nudes and tell them so. But I would consider it nice and hot after all

[Asker]

I've never sent him anything

[michael041987]

i see. complicated then. he just told you that he never asked for but he didn't say he wouldn't enjoy. Is that what bugs you? Yeah I would be unsure to in that case. It would be risky. maybe you should instead try to have a normal chst conversation and mentioning that you can't text for a while because shower/bathtube. Start adding subtle sexual messages. tell him you gonna undress for bed etc. maybe he will catch on. if you see that he likes that, I guess he is down for more. I would recommend you not just to send complete nudes out of the blue. get him curious first

[crotchwood]

that's up to you. Can go one of two ways here.
A) you love and respect him enough to do as he wishes and just be naughty for him only.
B) its your profile and respect yourself more and if he can't deal with it, then tough.

[crotchwood]

and to answer the title question. No, I wouldn't lose respect. I would love nudes from my sexy girlfriend and wouldn't tell her what she can or can't post on her sm.

[markscott]

First, stop sending him naughty pics, or you will lose him, and he will lose respect for you. I would not lose respect for someone sending the pics you described. However, it would depend on our relationship and some other factors.

[JFilmore]

Oh here we go with the "I'm not like other guys" holier than thou attitude (eye roll). If he gets offended/makes a big deal out of it, you shouldn't bother sending him any sexual pics/texts. Personally, I would not get offended.

[Pas3ka]

there's specific lure for whatever you're trying to catch so if he is the type of guy who would appreciate that, then sure. Just remember that once some things leave your phone, you can't get them back.

[mahmoud_]

I can get his point because he doesn't see you only as a sexual partner he just sees you as a whole and the nudes will have their time

[SnapTsch]

If she is not my girlfriend, then yes I would lose respect

[biryavi]

I wouldn't lose respect for a girl regardless of if she was my girlfriend. It sounds like your guy wouldn't really like it though.

[ladsin]

If the guy says he doesn't want it why would you keep doing it? That's harassment

[Asker]

We've hooked up multiple times so it's not harassment. And he didn't say he didn't want any, he says he respects me too much to ask.

[ladsin]

"I don't want you posting sexy pictures" I presume you're saying that he said he does not want them. Is that not the case?

[Asker]

He doesn't want me "posting" sexy selfies on my social media. "Posting" is different than "sending"

[ladsin]

Ah, I presumed that was a typo because it's none of his business what you post. Perhaps I'll just let all my thoughts out so you understand my position.
If you want to post nude, clothed, bikini, hell even picture of you wearing a sumo suit that is your prerogative and you are more than welcome to do it. If you want to send those pictures to a person without their consent, or despite their explicit non-consent then that would be wrong of you.
That said, if you're trying to please him and you know it doesn't please him for you to post those pictures then you shouldn't do it.

[KurdishPower]

My respect for her lower. I’ll see her as a sex object and nothing more

[JpSingh1302]

Hahaha if we guys can put our stories and posts showing our curves, she can at least send the pic of her body to the one whom she trusts. But if a guy doesn't respects you after so, he didn't deserved your trust and pic

[Dinnye001]

No. I have received nudes several times. If anything, I was pleasantly surprised. But every guy is different.

[owens97]

no i have lots if respect for them i have the most for people who have sex with me

[snkmarcel]

I love receiving sexy pics, but if he doesn't like it you should stop sending him

[Asker]

I haven't sent him anything yet. He gets upset in a possessive way if I post attractive pictures on my social media. So I was wondering if he would react the same if I sent it just to him privately?

[snkmarcel]

Ask him i guess

[Rick912]

No way. It tells me that she is confident and trusting. That is my type of lady.

[JesseTheMan]

Depends. If she's actually an intelligent person then I don't lose respect.

[UsernameMadness]

Yes, I'd figure she is just another white trash slut. Unless she's black or something.