Would you send your boyfriend nudes? And why do guys like receiving them?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend wants one and I'm debating wether or not I should send it. (On snapchat) I'm insecure about my body.

[AllThatSweetJazz]

The content doesn't need to be the best, but really the main point for me is the fact that a girl wants to send me those pics. It feels special because they are just for me and that they are from *her.* This is the whole reason guys would rather get nudes than go look at porn. Because it's not about tits and ass, I can find that anywhere, it's about the interest she expresses, the validation, it's about *her* tits and ass lol. If I get nudes, then I know (feel) a girl likes me and that's a great feeling. That said, I personally don't ask for nudes, I just talk about certain things in a certain way until she decides to surprise me with pics then it's even more wonderful because she volunteered them.

[holylove]

guys are scientifically known to be attracted to the physical body of girls while girl falls in love with what a guy says and behaves. So guys want to the see how the girl physically looks because it's a huge turn on but, the choice is yours while I recommend u not to send him nudes if he hasn't seen u nude in person. Maybe u should send him a mirror selfie in a crop top and tights, that's a turn on too.

[emilyg25]

#1: Only do it if you want to, do it because it excites you to do it as well
#2: I'm not sure if you guys are physical yet but if you are, he's already seen it and obviously likes it if he wants more.

To answer your question though, yes I would and yes I have sent nudes before. Golden rules of nudes though!
-No faces. I don't care how much you think you trust this guy. No faces. You never know what could happen to the picture, even by accident. Cloud is a scary thing.
-Same goes for background. Try to pick a someone neutral background. Not something someone could easily identify as it being you.
-Be sure to get one from him first if that's something you want.

[DaBrik]

@emilyg25 - great rules to live by!

[MissNowhere]

I would, no problem with it basically.
But it's up to you if you wanna send nudes or no. If you don't feel comfortable doing that, you don't have to, don't feel pressured, it's your decision. But I don't think you should feel insecure about your body. He's your boyfriend, that means he likes your body already just the way it is. If you do decide to send some pics, I'm sure it'll make your guy very happy! Just don't show face (obviously).

[ConfusedShyGirl]

I wouldn't recommend it espically if you haven't been together long, If your insecure thats also not a good reason to do it. Just see him in person and be with him nude, I know a person who was blackmailed after sending nudes, just be with him in person you will get more pleasure out of it. He may be nice enough not to spread it on the internet but he's friends will see them for sure

[xHoneyxBeex]

No, I wouldn't. Not because I don't trust him, but just because you never know what might happen. I just don't even want to allow an opportunity for the wrong person to see pictures of me like that. Once you send a picture, even on snapchat, it's out of your control and you can't get it back.

[Cmasterson]

Yes of course! It's just fun, I don't take life too seriously, and of course there's that risk that they could get out, at the end of the day it's your body and you can do whatever you please with it, no one can judge you. He's your boyfriend so if you trust him enough and you feel okay, then have fun x

[Anonymous]

No, think about your future career. When you go out and apply for jobs, if that guy has posted your nudes all over (which guys do all the time ) it will affect your future. You will be refused jobs, you'll get harrassed. You will feel invalidated due to everyone knowing what you naked looks like. Consider all of those things before sending that pic

[Just1n123]

Send them through text message instead of snapchat, he's your boyfriend, you should trust him with that picture. If you're insecure about it just tell him and see what he says.

[Karen_Lucrece]

Guys like nudes because it gets them excited at the fact that they get to see your body. Makes them more excited to see it in person and the sexual desire grows as well.

[linkywinky]

i've sent nudes but never to a boyfriend. If I had a boyfriend then yes probably.

[Take2]

Don't do it. You don't know where it will end up. Do you want to risk having nude pics of you floating around the internet?

[9mfeo]

Nope. Not sending anyone anything that I wouldn't want my potential or future boss to see.

[genericname85]

i won´t ever complain about getting nudes from a girl XD

if you´re insecure about it, you should really find out if he likes it, to lose your insecurity.

[CheerGirl38139]

No I wouldn't. And it's pretty obvious why they like getting them.

[cjriggs]

He shouldn't be forcing you to do something you're not uncomfortable with, especially with your body

[micheal727jovanie]

Men like naked woman. I don't think its a good idea especially on snapchat.

[Anonymous]

Do t do it. Once out there it's always out there. What happens when you two fight and he has nudes? Trust me only bad can come of it.

[Anonymous]

Being a male I love seeing naked females. It's hot to know a woman is thinking of me and wants to show me her naked body, big turn on.

[Anonymous]

well he can either beat off to your pictures or porn

you choose

[RasAlGhul]

if u dont have the feel to send it dont do it... maybe one day u want do it when u are horny or someting and that will be a nice surprise

[XXNicole]

It's never really a good idea to send nudes. Once they are out there they are there for good.

[Anonymous]

Why not send them? If you fear them being leaked then you doubt really trust him to not to

[Anonymous]

Something good about sending it on snapchat is you can tell if he screenshots or replays

[MarkTwain]

if your insecure about it, face chat

[Imgood12345]

If you don't show ur face at all

[scottb80]

Do it, but don't show your face.